“Everyone in the community has something to contribute…in the right space, they can.” - Eboo Patel, We Need to Build
NRN Network News
July 25, 2023
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Fostering Local Well-Being and Social Cohesion
On Thursday, July 6th, the NRN met at the Needham Town Hall and continued to brainstorm next steps for three projects that emerged as local needs during our “State of Needham” reflections: a mental health collaborative, projects fostering belonging in local businesses and projects fostering belonging in the community.
ICE BREAKER: The Best Advice I Ever Received
In pairs, members discussed the best advice they’ve ever been given:
- Don’t ever wake a sleeping baby.
- Ask yourself: “Do you want to be in the same place in your life a year from now?” If the answer is no, what do you need to do to get where you want?
- Speak your truth.
- Always be curious.
- We are all responsible for our own happiness.
THE NRN "STATE OF NEEDHAM REPORT"
The goal of the “State of Needham” reflections was tripart: to build common knowledge about town issues, foster intergroup empathy and understanding, and apply our shared understanding of the risks, weaknesses, strengths and disparities that exist in town to how we think about risk and protective factors at the local level.
"Risk" and "protective factors" are terms that are used in the mental health world and in the world of intergroup prejudice, or even extremism. Risk factors include stressors and losses (losing a job or being financially insecure, losing a loved one, the end of a relationship, etc.), while protective factors refer to social support and access to coping and mental health resources (e.g., having strong friends and family relationships, being able to access mental health care, etc.).
Investing in our community’s mental health and social cohesion is, therefore, a tool for preventing division and preemptively countering hate.
It is also an important input into how we design and implement rapid response (from September 2023 to February 2024, the NRN will use its meetings to co-create and practice a rapid response protocol).
As a conclusion to the “Deep Dive,” NRN members received a draft of the “NRN State of Needham Report” in June. The goals of the report are:
- to consolidate the NRN’s main learnings and reflections from the last 8 months
- to develop a shared narrative around challenges and strengths in Needham
- to make NRN reflections available to the public
NRN members were asked to review the report for accuracy and emphasis, and to offer feedback before July 15 so that we may present a revised version to the community.
NRN SCAFFOLDED SOCIAL COHESION PROJECTS: NEXT STEPS
At the June meeting, the NRN identified two themes that had emerged again and again in our Deep Dives; the rising challenges around mental and behavioral health in Needham and disparities in residents’ sense of belonging. In the July meeting, NRN members continued to brainstorm potential actions that the NRN might pursue in collaboration with other local actors to address them.
1) Improving Community Mental Health via a Mental Health Collaborative
In partnership with the Needham Community Council, the YMCA, and BID-Needham, this project will aim to:
- Increase community awareness, knowledge, and de-stigmatization of mental health issues by training a cohort of “hub” leaders who reflect the varied communities throughout Needham in Mental Health First Aid and community outreach. These trusted community “hub leaders” will then co-create mental initiatives with their communities to build awareness and access to resources.
- Create a clinician collaborative to increase accessibility of therapy for low-income and non-white populations who need mental and behavioral health care and live or go to school in Needham. The collaborative will prioritize cross-cultural competency and diversity.
- Establish a mental health presence at community events such as block parties, festivals, business gatherings, as well as initiatives at houses of worship, schools, childcare centers, etc. and offer tools for self-assessment, outreach steps and conversation starters.
- The NRN and its partners have submitted a proposal to do this work with Boston Children’s Hospital; we will continue to seek funding on behalf of this project.
2) Increasing Community Belonging
The goal of a “Together Needham” initiative (name TBD) is to build awareness about what belonging is and looks like, and set a positive norm of belonging throughout the town. Ideas for this initiative include:
- Distributing a community welcome packet to all residents, bi-annually, publicizing major town events, including a list of local groups and organizations and ways to get involved, linking to a calendar, etc.
- The establishment of a certificate/award/plaque for "Places of Belonging"; those non-business locations (e.g., parks, bridges, etc.) most frequently mentioned in the NRN “Belonging & Social Cohesion Survey”.
- Create a website where residents can take the Belonging Barometer quiz to see their belonging score, answer a few questions, and be routed to local groups or activities that might interest them, i.e., “The Best of Belonging in Needham.”
- Encouraging or supporting neighborhood block parties or activities with special belonging or wellness themes (e.g., visits by Rocket the Youth Resource Officer dog, representation by informal mental health hub leaders, and projects in conjunction with the Needham Arts Council).
- Supporting a second Multicultural Festival.
- Creating programs/gatherings with the themes of belonging and/or wellness for specific, at-risk groups, such as caregivers; elderly (i.e., intergenerational activities); parents of younger children that might not yet be engaged in school communities (i.e., parent co-ops) and teens.
- These initiatives will serve everybody; newcomers to Needham, people that have experienced change (housing, developmental milestones including children moving away, marriage, divorce and death), and the average person/family.
3) Developing a “Businesses/Places of Belonging” Program in Needham
In partnership with the Needham Business Alliance - Charles River Regional Chamber, this project includes:
- The establishment of an annual or bi-annual certificate/award for “Belonging Businesses,” those restaurants, stores or community centers most frequently mentioned in the NRN “Belonging & Social Cohesion Survey.”
- Assembling resources and/or providing workshops on how to incorporate effective belonging practices/spaces into the workplace (or entity of interest).
- Creating a scholarship program to develop/honor high schoolers who have contributed to belonging within Needham and/or to foster internship opportunities for low-income and non-white high schoolers.
- Designing and/or helping to foster Community Conversations around salient topics such as belonging, equity and wellness in Needham.
- The NRN will play a role in fostering Community Conversations alongside other community actors.
Thanks to everyone in the NRN for sharing their time and talent to produce an initial scaffolding for these projects. The Co-Directors will soon reach out about next steps, including how NRN subnetworks can be engaged to recruit other community members in the planning and enactment of these projects.
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CLOSING PULSE
The meeting ended with comments reflecting “one takeaway” (an insight, feeling, or perspective from the meeting). They included:
- Informative
- Listening
- Engaged
- So many ideas
- Feel I belong
- Hopeful
- Wishing for more understanding, listening, learning, and connecting
- Words are important
- Making progress
- Hopeful for engagement
- Life and people are complex
WHAT WE ARE READING/WATCHING/LISTENING TO:
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Read: ‘“The Bear’ and the Need for a Place to Belong”. Conservative columnist David French likens this moment of loneliness, outrage and lack of belonging in America to a fictional character in the sitcom, “The Bear,” writing, “I’ve seen this with my own eyes. I’ve seen how we’ve become a nation of bruised reeds, busy breaking one another. We see the rage, but we miss the pain. We exclude the very people we most need to include. We lash back to inflict even greater wounds. We forget to seek the virtues hidden under a shell of vice.”
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Read: In “Which Comes First, the Equity or the Pluralism?” Kristin Campbell, the CEO of Philanthropy for Active Civic Engagement (PACE), writes about whether work to advance pluralism and social cohesion is antithetical to efforts to pursue racial equity and justice. She argues that we need both, and often at the same time.
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Read: In Seek: How Curiosity Can Transform Your Life and Change the World, Scott Shegoika asks, “Did you know that curiosity is your superpower? Though we often think of being curious as a personality trait, it’s actually the foundation of our capacity for connection, growth, and healing. His book, available now for pre-order, explores how to practice deep curiosity through a four-phase "DIVE" model—Detach, Intend, Value, Embrace so you can build the courage to be transformed by the people, places, and experiences you encounter.
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Read: “To Heal Our Divided Country Drive 50 Miles in Any Direction Then Schmooze,” by political scientist Justin Guest. Guest writes, “Today, nearly all Americans reside in neighborhoods that are segregated by race, or political party, and we reinforce this isolation thanks to internet algorithms that feed us what we want to read. In particular, political party, now a more meaningful source of division than race or religion for many people — is reflected by the concentration of progressives in blue urban centers and conservatives in the red hinterland. So, driving out of or into the nearest major metropolitan area will place you into contact with people different from you, and our research has found that this is where progress is made.”
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Read: The Belonging Barometer: The State of Belonging in the US, by Dr. Nichole Argo and Hammad Sheikh. By demonstrating a link between belonging and Americans’ scores on health, social cohesion and democracy, this report calls attention to belonging as a factor that matters deeply for leaders and stakeholders across diverse sectors. It proposes a nuanced new tool for measuring belonging—the Belonging Barometer—that is robust, accessible, and readily deployable in the service of efforts to advance the common good. Lastly, it reports on “the state of belonging” across US families, workplaces, local communities, and at the national level. Preview: a majority of Americans report non-belonging in workplaces, local communities, and the nation…and the lowest belonging scores occur in local communities.
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Watch: The Belonging Barometer webinar discussing what belonging is and why it matters for democracy and workplaces. Panelists include: The Belonging Barometer author Nichole Argo, Walmart’s Melissa Carter, The Omidyar Network’s Michelle Barsa, and john a. Powell of The Othering and Belonging Institute.
Onward!
The NRN Co-Directors
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NRN MONTHLY MEETING
***THERE WILL BE NO NRN MEETING IN AUGUST***
The next NRN meeting will take place on Thursday, September 7th at 6:30pm at Needham Town Hall, Powers Hall, 1471 Highland Avenue, Needham
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