JULY 2024 NEWSLETTER

Dear Parents and Friends,

We hope everyone is well and have made plans for some fun and relaxation this summer. Check out our article on traveling with kids.

ASCF staff

ONLINE PRESENTATION

Using Positive Behavior Support in School

Tuesday, July 2, 7-8 PM

Children do not lose their constitutional rights when they walk through the schoolhouse door. This workshop summarizes the rights of children with and without disabilities in the area of discipline. What can administrators do? What are the limits on their authority? What are some alternatives to out-of-school suspension? When and before whom must a suspension or expulsion hearing be held?

This workshop provides an overview of a cycle of failure that often results for students with behavioral challenges. The focus is on intervention with students who exhibit challenging behaviors (e.g. aggression, self-injury, tantrums). An emphasis on educational strategies helps students learn alternate behaviors that can lead to long-term change. Information on due process rights of children in the discipline process is also provided.

To register: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/using-pbis-in-school-registration-929302778627?aff=ebdsoporgprofile

For other great SPAN trainings go to https://www.eventbrite.com/o/span-parent-advocacy-network-313399547

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ASCF'S DAD ONLY GROUP

A virtual Dad Chat group begins on Monday July 8, 2024 at 7:00 pm. In the subject line: Dad Chat. This is not counseling. This is a facilitated discussion of fathers sharing their joys and frustrations. ASCF welcomes other male caregivers who are raising their special needs child(ren). No legal medical advice or recommendations are given at any time.  The Zoom link will be emailed the morning of the group.  


VIRTUAL PRESENTATION


The ARC of New Jersey is offering a webinar

What Parents Need to Know When Applying for Their Adult Child's SSA Benefits 

 Tuesday, July 16, 2024     7:00pm - 8:00pm   

The speakers are Risa Rohrberger, Esq. and Tracey Cahn, Esq. 

This webinar will help clarify common questions about applying for Social Security by covering: An overview of all adult disability programs, with an emphasis on SSI. The many steps involved in the disability application and appeal process. How to support a claim - providing education records, medical records, internship/work records, family/friend observations, etc. Filling out the forms - how to answer the questions to provide accurate and helpful information.

https://register.gotowebinar.com/register/8927328971093876571

PARENTING GUIDANCE

10 Tips to Help Kids Avoid Travel Meltdowns and Sensory Overload

Travel can pose unique challenges for kids who have trouble processing sensory information. Plan ahead and learn how to avoid travel meltdowns with these 10 tips.

1. Bring a “sensory travel kit.” If your child has visual sensitivities or is sensitive to sounds, textures, or smells, you might have already found tools that help — things like sunglasses, earplugs, or fidgets.

2. Pack familiar toiletries. Pack the toiletries you use at home. And bring towels you know your child will use

3. Practice your trip. For older kids, this may mean looking over the route, routines, and schedule for your trip.

4. Stop for frequent breaks during car trips. Sitting still for a long time in a small space can be hard for all kids. It can be especially hard for kids with sensory processing challenges

5. Give yourself extra time. Schedule some extra time to get to the airport, bus or train station, or your destination. It can reduce the chances that your child — or you — will feel overwhelmed by the stress

6. Look for quiet corners during travel waits. It can happen that you miss your flight, train, bus, or subway. And there may be a long time between travel connections.

7. Be strategic in your boarding options. Many airlines make accommodations for families who need extra support. Call ahead to see what can be done to help.

8. Let your child get used to travel and vacation clothes. Sticking with familiar clothing for a trip means one less stressor to manage.

9. Bring along familiar foods instead of asking your child to adapt to new ones.

10. Follow the routine you use at home. A change in routine can be tough on many kids. Help your child go to sleep and wake up at the same time as at home. Follow the same rules.

https://www.understood.org/en/articles/10-tips-to-help-kids-with-sensory-processing-issues-avoid-travel-meltdowns

MENTAL HEALTH TIPS

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Ways Children Can Improve Self-Esteem for Better Mental Health

Learning how to nurture self-esteem is important for everyone, but is especially important for children who can reap lifelong benefits. Children who learn techniques to overcome shyness, combat social anxiety and stand up for themselves develop a positive self image and resiliency.

Words to Help Improve Self-Esteem

Simple yet impactful, affirmations and positive self-talk serve as powerful tools to  improve self-image. The CDC emphasizes the importance of positive mental health practices, such as self-affirmation, in enhancing overall well-being. Some examples:

·        I am enough.

·        I am at peace with myself.

·        I value myself as a person.

·        I deserve to be happy.

·        I trust myself.

·        I am in control of myself.

·        I am safe.

·        I am loved.

·        I am worthy.

·        I am grateful for my life.

In moments of self-doubt and adversity, it’s essential to practice self-compassion and resilience. By reframing setbacks as opportunities for growth, individuals can cultivate inner strength and improve self-esteem.

This information is from an article from NewBridge Services. 

For complete article go to

https://newbridge.org/education/improve-self-esteem-for-better-mental-health

NewBridge Services offers in-school programs for children designed to develop resilience in children and adolescents. (973)-316-9333.

CHECK THIS OUT

Project Self Sufficiency's Project Vacation

What Will I do when I grow up?

Jobs in our community

Children ages 4-10

Games crafts Music Food Guest Speaker and Fun

Free call 973- 940- 3500 with questions

July 15-19 9 am -noon

www.projectselfsuffiency.org

Project Self Sufficiency- 127 Mill Street, Newton, NJ 07860


Have a Safe, Happy 4th of July.




THOUGHTS TO PONDER

When unexpected things happen (natural disasters, violence) in a child's life that leave them emotionally and physically shaken give your children a chance to ask questions. If they have difficulty communicating their feelings, encourage them to communicate in a way that works best for them - journaling or drawing, for example. 

It's okay to show vulnerability. Your children learn through experiencing and watching. They can learn how to cope simply by seeing how you grieve and manage during difficult times.

DISCLAIMER:
The Association for Special Children and Families does not provide or give legal or medical advice.
DESCARGO DE RESPONSABILIDAD:
La Asociación para Niños y Familias Especiales no proporciona ni brinda asesoramiento legal o médico.