Vacca Family Law Group - New York Divorce Attorney

Welcome to the August 2024 edition of the Vacca Family Law Group newsletter.


In this month's newsletter, we discuss how the principles of Positive Psychology can help divorcing clients and their professional advisors better manage the divorce process. These principles include having a growth mindset, focusing on your strengths, learning to be resilient, and understanding the importance of a "good enough" agreement.


In part 1 of our series, we explore the transformative power of adopting a growth mindset during divorce. By viewing challenges as opportunities for growth, individuals can navigate financial and parenting hurdles more effectively and envision a positive future.


Read on for the rest of our "Positive Psychology in Divorce" blog series and other exciting news.

- Andrea Vacca, Collaborative Attorney and Mediator

Positive Psychology in Divorce - Part 1: Having a Growth Mindset

Divorce is undeniably challenging, but it can also be a catalyst for personal growth and renewal.



In the first part of our four-part blog series, "Positive Psychology in Divorce", we discuss the concept of adopting a growth mindset - seeing divorce not as an insurmountable obstacle, but as a chance to learn and grow. By asking empowering questions and visualizing a better future, you can navigate financial challenges and parenting dynamics with confidence and resilience.

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Positive Psychology in Divorce - Part 2: Focusing on Your Strengths

Positive Psychology in Divorce - Part 3: Learning to Be Resilient

Positive Psychology in Divorce - Part 4: The "Good Enough" Agreement

Recent Client Testimonials

Did such an amazing job providing mediation for my fiancé and I, making us feel both represented and cared for, while avoiding potential hostile pitfalls of getting a lawyer each. The experience felt transparent and smooth. The entire team is kind, compassionate and professional. Would work with them again in a heartbeat.


- Prenuptial Agreement Mediation Client

Catch Up on the Latest Episodes of

A Better Divorce Podcast

Launching Your Post-Divorce Career with Debra Boulanger

10 Must-Follow Rules for Successful Divorce Mediation - Solo Episode with Andrea Vacca

What High Net Worth Couples Should Know if They Are Contemplating Divorce with Olivia Summerhill

The Art of Letting Go: Decluttering and Downsizing During Divorce with Sonya Weisshappel

News & Events

Vacca Family Law Group Celebrates New Certified Divorce Specialists (CDS®)

We are thrilled to announce that Thom Grigal, our Client Relations Manager, and Connor Sinsimer, our Marketing Coordinator, have each earned their Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) designations from the National Association of Divorce Professionals (NADP).


Thom's new certification enhances his ability to support our clients with empathy and tailored guidance, while Connor's expertise in marketing communications will now reflect a deeper understanding of the complexities of divorce.


Please join us in congratulating Thom and Connor on their outstanding achievement and commitment to excellence in serving our clients.

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Vacca Family Law Group Annual Employee Get-Together

Employees of Vacca Family Law Group came together last month for our highly anticipated annual staff event! This year's celebration took place in the charming Turtle Bay Gardens.


Our staff enjoyed a feast of delicious food, engaging conversations, and a chance to unwind and connect outside of the office. The atmosphere was filled with joy and camaraderie as we not only celebrated our collective achievements and the dedication that makes Vacca Family Law Group truly exceptional but also wished our wonderful Receptionist and Legal Assistant, Maire Gordon, a fond farewell as she leaves the firm to attend Brooklyn Law School in the Fall.


Here's to the incredible team that makes everything possible and to many more memorable gatherings in the future!

Andrea Vacca and Her Husband, Steve Zaffarano, Featured in New York Magazine Turtle Bay Gardens Article

We're excited to share that Andrea Vacca and her husband, Steve Zaffarano, were recently featured in a captivating article by New York Magazine, There Are Hidden Gardens and Then There's Turtle Bay Gardens.


Nestled between the towering skyscrapers of Midtown, this unique enclave is a historic treasure, blending charming townhouses with a lush, private garden that has captivated residents and visitors for over a century. It has been home to an array of notable figures over the years, including iconic personalities like Katharine Hepburn and Stephen Sondheim.


The article highlights Andrea and Steve's journey to this enchanting community, quoting them as saying:


A few years before we moved in, a friend of mine who lived here was offering a meditation class in the garden; she’s a therapist, and she was doing it with a meditation teacher. I came and I was like, What is this place? On Facebook in the fall of 2020, I saw she was building a house upstate. I messaged her: “What are you doing with that apartment?” She said she was giving it up. We owned a condo in Fidi at the time — we had a roof-deck, a valet. But we rushed here the next morning and took it. We were so worried we were going to lose it. When people come visit us, I like to watch their faces. They’re like, Oh my God.


Andrea describes living in Turtle Bay Gardens as a true privilege, offering a serene escape amidst the bustling New York City. She and her husband feel incredibly fortunate to be part of this storied neighborhood, surrounded by such rich history and beauty.


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Divorce Without Court: A More Peaceful Solution

In Divorce Without Court: A More Peaceful Solution, Andrea Vacca discusses how and why to keep your divorce out of court. You’ll learn the differences between divorce mediation and collaborative divorce, as well as tips for choosing the right attorney for your unique situation.


Read the book in full on our website or sign up for our five-day eCourse. The eCourse option allows you to receive the eBook in daily installments via email. On the final day of the course, you'll receive a comprehensive checklist to help you prepare for your divorce.


To sign up for your free eCourse, complete the form in the link below and select "Opt-in to Andrea Vacca's No Court Divorce eCourse".

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With over 30 years of experience, Andrea Vacca is an established thought leader in matrimonial and family law in New York, including collaborative divorce, mediation, prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, financial issues in divorce, and more. To inquire about having Andrea speak to your organization on these and various related topics, contact us.

A Better Divorce Quote of the Month

"As one goes through life, one learns that if you don't paddle your own canoe, you don't move."



- Katharine Hepburn

Want to dissolve your marriage without litigation? We can help.

For over 20 years, Vacca Family Law Group has helped clients to dissolve their marriages without litigation. We focus on finding creative (and sometimes unconventional) solutions that are right for each client’s unique situation to help alleviate stress and facilitate the establishment of a positive path forward throughout the divorce. Our flexible approach allows us to navigate this process with the utmost discretion and elevated service while prioritizing the well-being and long-term goals of our clients and their families.


For more information about how Vacca Family Law Group can help you have the least adversarial divorce possible, contact us to schedule your free introductory call.

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