Issue No. 3 - August 2024 - Hope Starts Here

Welcome to Recovering Out Loud, the newsletter of Turning Point Bennington.

We bring you news and views from our recovery community in every issue. Enjoy!

Join Us for SoberFest and Celebrate Victories Big and Small


Turning Point of Bennington (TPCB) is holding a party and the whole community is invited. Sober Fest kicks off at 12 noon on Saturday, September 7 at lower Willow Park. The all-day event celebrates triumphs, big and small, in the battle to beat drug and alcohol abuse.


 “We’re thrilled to be able to bring talented musicians, local artists and community partners together for a fun packed day,” said TPCB director Margae Diamond. “We want people to see that recovery is possible and that Hope starts here!"


TPCB’s Diamond noted that the event has grown in leaps and bounds in a few short years, in what she called a heartwarming testament to the community’s interest and involvement.


Marcel Holland, recovery coach and chief architect for Soberfest, offered a glimpse of how the day will look: ”There will be seven live bands, we have about 30 vendors, we have a yoga area, we'll have a wellness area, we'll have a kids area,” he said.


From Noon-5 there will be a Vendor Village with food and crafters, a Family Village and a Wellness Village, according to Holland. Live music will start at 1 p.m. The music headliner will be Reed Foehl, a popular local folk musician once nominated for a Grammy. Six additional music acts will perform throughout the day. Dinner (no cost) will be offered from 5-6:30. A Candle lighting, remembering loved ones and honoring those in recovery today, will be held at dusk.


“We've heard from a lot of people asking for an event like this,” Holland added in remarks directed to the Bennington Select Board. “As you know, [sobriety] is a pretty big topic these days. So, we thank you for your support on this because it's definitely important.”


Donations to Turning Point will be appreciated but are not expected.


A Wellness Workshop Helps Writers Chart a Path to Recovery


“It fills my soul in a way nothing else does. It’s magic.”


Susanne Wessler is talking about writing. In this case, writing as part of her sobriety and recovery. Susanne is a devoted member of the Writers for Recovery workshop at Turning Point Center of Bennington (TPCB).


“I find that writing in a community — same place, same faces in the group — brings me closer to people. It lets me get to know them through their art,” she adds.


For Jim, another member of the group, enthusiasm for the workshop came as a bit of a surprise.


“When I started coming here, writing was new to me,” he says. “But in the four months I’ve been coming, writing has developed into a habit. I have to do it. Writing calms my thought process.”


The Writers for Recovery workshop is one of a half-dozen wellness programs accessible at Turning Point. TPCB Director Margae Diamond notes that wellness work is an important part of the center’s holistic approach to helping clients chart their road to recovery.

“Having designated wellness coaches who are trained in trauma-informed practices is so important,” she explains. “Sustained recovery involves retraining the mind and forging a new relationship with your body. The groups we offer are designed for people in recovery.”

Writers for Recovery, which meets Tuesdays 4:00 to 5:30 pm, is led by Carol Adinolfi, a writer, teacher and dramaturg.* Adinolfi is also a certified recovery coach. The group is part of the Burlington-based Writers for Recovery organization, which since 2014 has brought workshops and public readings to communities all over Vermont, from the Northeast Kingdom to Bennington. Celebrating their 10th anniversary this year, Writers for Recovery aims to expand their reach across New England.


The tagline for Writers for Recovery is Where Words Replace Silence," says TPCB director Diamond. “That is so powerful to me because we are so shut off in our addiction. We are silent. This is a space to express your journey and find that you are not alone.”

 

In a recent Tuesday workshop, Carol starts by reading a poem by the Nobel Prize winning poet Derek Walcott entitled Love After Love, reading in part:


“… You will love again the stranger who was yourself/ Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart/to itself, to the stranger who has loved you all your life…” 


Carol asks the group to write their response to the poem, remembering the workshop credo: “There is no right way or wrong way” to tackle a writing challenge. The clock stops ticking with 7-minutes to go. It’s a thorny assignment, but in seconds pens are frantically scratching the paper.


Reading their work aloud, they write of lost love — Love after love ain’t the same as the first time ‘round — and of loving the “stranger” that they once were, their innocent younger self, so full of hope — Had I forgotten her? That girl who ran barefoot on the velvet moss paths? 


The writing is deeply personal, and full of passion. Their work speaks of their struggles and of bravery in facing down substance abuse. It is both expression of their personal journeys and a powerful tool to help them on the road to recovery.


“There’s a lot of neuroscience charting the restorative power of creating writing,” says Adinolfi. “The science is confirmed in these workshops … it’s what people experience when they sit down together and write.”


As Adinolfi puts it, workshop members find their burgeoning voice as writers and tap into the “amazing riches” poetry and literature have to offer. “It’s inspiring,” she says with admiration.


* You can read more about Carol Adinolfi at https://www.dovetailarts.org/about and her recent work at https://www.thresholdcollaborative.org/events



Find more about Writers for Recovery at https://www.writersforrecovery.org/

“I happen to love being sober. Being sober for me is a pleasure. I get a lot of joy out of it…I get to surf; I get to hang out with my son; I get to play music; I get to be okay.”



-Anthony Kiedis, Red Hot Chili Peppers

Some Thoughts on Enabling from RCORP’s Rural Center of Excellence


In the June newsletter from Rural Communities Opioid Response Program (RCORP), an essay entitled A Different Perspective on Recovery caught our eye. Written by Dr. Ernie Fletcher, founder and chief medical officer of RCORP’s Rural Center of Excellence and SUD, the piece explores new ways of dealing with addiction that replace the outdated, punitive approaches promoted for decades.


As Dr. Fletcher writes: “At our national summit in Memphis a few years ago, I gave a

speech titled, "It's Not Working." Referencing the disastrous legacy

of America's misguided War on Drugs, I issued an all-hands-on-

deck call for system-wide change by replacing the outdated punitive approach to addiction with a far more holistic and evidence-based approach as embodied in the Fletcher Group’s recovery ecosystem model of recovery.


He cites Dr. Alex Elswick, a researcher at the University of Kentucky, as a clinician who takes the holistic approach one step further. Elswick argues that demanding sobriety for housing and other recovery assets is in itself a form of punishment.


He writes: “Recovery's not an event and is never linear. That means people don't wake up one day and spontaneously say, ‘I think I won't do heroin anymore.’ The addicted are no longer bad people trying to be good; they're sick people trying to be well."


“People in recovery have never been some breed apart requiring specialized treatment,” Elswick continues. “Their needs while healing are the same as everyone else’s …

health and wellness, living a self-directed life, and reaching your potential, in

that order. The problem is that when we turn away someone because they’ve relapsed, we're actually depriving them of the safety and other conditions needed to succeed."


On the subject of family support, Elswick is adamant that when family is supportive, people in recovery are more likely to seek out services following treatment. As he puts it, all outcomes are better when your family supports the addict in recovery.

“We know now that enabling is only bad when you're enabling addiction,” Dr. Elswick concludes. “If you're enabling recovery, it's a good thing.”


Powerful food for thought.



"The Stigma of Addiction"



Turning Point and other recovery centers are working hard to tear down stereotypes against people struggling with substance use disorders, but prejudice is deep-rooted. So deep, in fact, that the stigma society attaches to substance abuse is the number one reason people don’t reach out for help.


Watch this 14-mimute Ted Talk for a fresh perspective on the stigma of drug addiction.

Check It Out Here

Parents In Recovery Program at TPC Chittenden County



We also recommend watching this news segment on a successful project aimed at getting parents in recovery back on track. Turning Point of Chittenden leads the program.

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TCPB's Pilot Program Makes National News



TPCB got good play recently in The Daily Yonder, the only national news organization for rural people and places. The article highlights TPCB’s work with Bennington’s rescue service — a first of its kind collaboration in Vermont — targeting alcohol and substance abusers who have fallen through the cracks.

Check It Out Here

How Baltimore Became the U.S. Overdose Capital



Baltimore was once hailed for its response to substance abuse. But as fentanyl flooded the streets and officials shifted priorities, deaths hit unprecedented heights. Click the link to read the Baltimore Banner's fascinating account of how Baltimore became America’s overdose capital.

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This Restaurant Gives

Hope to Those in Recovery, One Shift at a Time


Last but not least, a good-news story about recovery from the Washington Post. This restaurant gives hope to those in recovery, one shift at a time: Read the story by clicking the link.

Check It Out Here

TPC Bennington Groups at a Glance

 

“We Stood at the Turning Point” Group: An open AA meeting that any member of the community may attend.

[Meets at Turning Point Center, M/W/F from Noon to 1:00 pm]

 

Recovery Dharma Group: Learn how to use Buddhist principles and meditation to guide your path to recovery from addictions, including alcohol and drugs. You don’t have to be a Buddhist to participate. All are welcome!

[Meets at Turning Point Center, Monday 6:00-7:00 pm]

 

Women’s All-Recovery Group: You are in charge of your life, and you get to decide how to live it. All recovery paths are respected and welcome.

[Meets at Turning Point Center, Tuesday 4:00-5:00 pm]

 

Writing Recovery Workshop: Discover the power of the written word to process trauma, build self-esteem, and support healthy, sustained recovery. 

[Meets at Turning Point Center. Tuesday 5:00-6:00 pm]

 

Zen Family Wellness: If you’re in recovery, you are invited to enjoy quality family time with mindfulness games, crafts, and activities for people of all ages.

[Meets at Turning Point Center. Tuesday 5:00-6:00 pm]

 

Breathwork and Focus for Anxiety Control: Learn breathing techniques that let your body slow down and find the balance between what your feeling, thinking, and actually experiencing.

[Meets at Turning Point Center, Wednesday 3:30-4:00 pm]

 

ACoA-The Body, Mind and Spirit Group: Share in a safe, nonjudgmental environment to identify and heal core trauma, experience freedom from shame and abandonment, and become your own loving parent.

[Meets at Turning Point Center, Wednesday 5:30-6:30 pm]

 

Emotional Sobriety-Reading/Open Discussion Men’s Group: In this reading/open discussion group we explore the book “Emotional Sobriety: The Next Frontier.”

[Meets at Turning Point Center, Thursday 5:00-6:00 pm]

 

Recovery Community Dinner: An expertly prepared dinner, free to all members of the community.

[Held at First Baptist Church, 601 Main Street, every 3rd Thursday of the month, 5:00-6:30pm]

 

Soul Collage: Discover your inner wisdom and allies. Soul Collage is a creative collage process that deepens your relationship with yourself and increases self-knowledge and self-confidence.

[Meets at Turning Point Center, Friday 1:30-2:30 pm]

 

Adventures in Sobriety: Come share the exciting adventures sobriety has to offer. Feel the joy of trying new things with peers in a safe environment.

[Meets Saturday mornings. For time and meeting location call (802) 442-9700, M-F between 9 and 4]

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