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Keeping Your Physical, Emotional & Mental Health Strong this Spring


Greetings, Seawolf Families!


Who is ready for Spring Break? Whether you are headed on vacation with your student or just spending some quality time with your loved ones at home, consider checking in on your family's mental, emotional, and physical health.


We know all too well when the semester gets busy we can put our health on the back burner to focus on assignments and exams. But making that time to focus on different pillars of health can help us thrive in our academics.

Utilizing our Campus Recreation and Wellness resources could be a great way for your student to keep their mental and physical wellness in check!

Associate Director of Recreation and Wellness, Thomas Lail, sat down with us to tell us more about how students can get the most out of Recreation and Wellness:


What are the types of things Recreation and Wellness offers our Seawolves?


Thomas Lail: We offer more than people might think. Everybody's mind will typically go to lifting weights and cardio, running on a treadmill or a track, or something of that nature, but we are so much more than just a gym facility. We offer over 40 fitness classes weekly, including yoga, HITT, spin classes, and Zumba. What’s cool about that is it's your peers teaching those classes.


We also run intramural programming Monday through Thursday; additionally, we support 44 different sports clubs that students can join here on campus, including our award-winning Esports team. So, there is always something for everyone. Aside from just gym equipment, we also have three full-size wood courts for open rec. Students can play pickleball, basketball, indoor soccer, and even badminton. We also offer open swim times, a challenge course for team building, and various leadership-building opportunities.


Lastly, we provide off-campus trips. Every weekend, students get to experience recreational activities beyond the brook. Some of the trips we’ve done include going to Nets and Islander games, indoor rock climbing, outdoor rock climbing, and white water rafting. 


How does Recreation and Wellness impact students' lives and change perceptions of recreation?


Recreation and Wellness is very community-based. You start to find people with the same mindset, or similar hobbies, or interests that you can connect with and become friends with. I think Recreation and Wellness take on a lot of hats, and knowing that we can provide whatever form of recreation you might want is important. 


We have to remember that recreation can take on a lot of different forms, our Esports team is a great example of that. Recreation, whether it's physical fitness or recreationally playing sports or again playing Esports is also that escape for students, and an avenue to kind of get away from the daily class schedule and homework cycle, and relieve some stress.


What advice would you give to students nervous about starting their fitness journey or getting involved in Recreation or Wellness?


I know it sounds cliche but just do it. You got to just get out there and challenge yourself. These college years are the best time to experiment and to push your boundaries and your comfort zones. You know, everybody who comes into this center, whether they've lifted at home or worked out at home or played soccer growing up, everybody has to start somewhere. There's going to be people in here who are going to have a lot of knowledge on lifting, and there's going to be people who don't, and that’s ok because that’s your chance to know to start somewhere.


How can families support and encourage students to utilize Recreation and Wellness resources?


Parents can help educate students about the available opportunities and encourage them to participate. Remind them they can go and pick up a basketball, join an intramural team, or do something a little less intimidating than going in and trying to lift weights. Maybe it's even joining your student in exploring these resources during breaks.


We also employ a lot of students and provide a lot of opportunities for career growth and the building of transferable skills that are relevant to the workplace with conflict management, leadership, and communication styles, among other things.


To learn more about Campus Recreation and Wellness click here.

Tips from Students

As we learn more about the variety of programming from Campus Recreation and Wellness, Esport team members Vincent Wen and Chris Rella, tell us why the term 'recreation and wellness' is more than "just a gym."

Sprinkling Support: Salt Shaker Parenting


Our metaphor of being a Salt Shaker parent means sprinkling your child with support, questions, and love in a gentle, subtle way.

Salt shaker

One of the primary indicators we see in successful students is the ability to find balance in their lives. Academic success is going to require many hours of studying and focus, but self-care and stress management are also necessary elements for a healthy scholar. As family members, telling our students to study harder may be tempting, but other reminders may be more impactful! You may gently suggest they take some time to connect with friends, do some deep breathing, or take a walk.


When students can find steadiness and calm amid their demanding schedules, they are better able to retain and synthesize the information they are learning in the classroom. As members of the Student Support Team, we often meet with students who may be struggling to manage stressful situations, which then impacts their ability to focus fully on their studies. We take the time to ask about a student’s coping strategies and methods for relaxation and if necessary, assist them with available campus resources. 


If spring break provides an opportunity to have some check-in time with your student, gently ask what their stress level has been and how they unwind and reset throughout the day. They may be surprised and happy that you are inquiring about something other than academic progress! They will also be impressed by your knowledge of Stony Brook’s Meditation Room, Recreation and Wellness Center, and Student Engagement and Activities. As always, remember to sprinkle your student with love, support, and some ideas for balance on campus and in life!

The Career Corner

Get to Know the Handshake Platform: How Your Student Can Make Better Career Moves


Between social media and endless sketchy search results, there’s a lot of questionable, outdated job search advice out there. Using Handshake can better help your student find, land, and succeed in their career.


Click on the link below to learn more about Handshake's new update that will help your student's job search and networking skills!

How Handshake Will Enhance Your Student's Job Search

Campus Highlights

Record Broken for Largest Single-Week Donation to Food Pantry


Stony Brook’s Division of Finance & Administration (F&A) recently broke the largest single-week record for food donated to the university’s on-campus Food Pantry. Previously set at 269 pounds, the division participated in the “Adopt a Week” program during Valentine’s Day week and was able to collect an astonishing 700 pounds.

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Swimming & Diving Team Earns CSCAA Scholar All-America Status


The Stony Brook University swimming and diving team has earned Scholar All-America status for the Fall 2023 semester, as announced by the College Swimming and Diving Coaches Association. The Seawolves’ swimming and diving program exemplified excellent academic performance throughout the Fall 2023 semester. 

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Campus News


Panel Takes on the Challenges of Reporting in an Election Year

On February 22, a panel of journalists and media professionals came together for a discussion titled, “The Unique Challenges of Reporting on the 2024 Election” which explores the role of journalism in communicating truth and overcoming differences.

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Alumni Couple Helps Business Students Overcome Obstacles Through Scholarship

Thomas R. Sexton ’79, PhD and Margherita (Terry) Sexton ’85, MS ’88 share a long history with Stony Brook University. Both obtained degrees from Stony Brook — graduating from the College of Engineering and Applied Sciences — their children attended the university, and Tom helped shape the College of Business into what it is today.

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SBU Research Team Takes Major Step Toward a Functioning Quantum Internet

A team of Stony Brook University physicists and their collaborators have taken a significant step toward the building of a quantum internet testbed by demonstrating a foundational quantum network measurement that employs room-temperature quantum memories. Their findings are described in a paper published in the Nature Journal Quantum Information.

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Upcoming Events


Women's Empowerment & Self-Care Mini Sessions

Wednesday, March 6

12:00 p.m.

SAC 223

Click here for more details.


Gala 2024 Leslie Odom, Jr.

Saturday, March 9

8:00 p.m.

Staller Center

Click here to purchase tickets.


Giving Day 2024

Wednesday, March 27

Online

Click here to donate.


Women's Empowerment & Self-Care Mini Sessions

Wednesday, March 27

1:00 p.m.

Union Ballroom

Click here for more details.


Visit the Stony Brook Calendar for a full list of campus events.

Have Questions? We Have Answers! 


My student is considering changing majors, when can they apply for the change?

Students can begin to submit a change to their major or minor beginning on Monday, March 25. The change will not be effective until the Fall 2024 semester. Click here to learn more.


My student completed Phase 1 for Room Selection, when will they be able to select their housing for Fall 2024?

Phase 2 of room selection will open up in mid-March and is based on where your student plans to live. Selections for those returning to the same community your student is currently in will begin on Tuesday, March 19, and will close on Friday, March 22. Residents looking to select a room in a different community will begin on Tuesday, March 26, and will close on Friday, March 29.


A room must be selected by Friday, March 29 at 2 p.m. or a room will be selected for them. Click here to learn more about the room selection process.


Where does my student go if they need medical attention?

The Student Health Services offers a diverse range of medical and healthcare services. Students can also use our TimelyCare app for free 24/7 Telehealth services. To see all the Student Health Services offers click here.


When can my student enroll for Summer/Fall Session?

Every student will have a different enrollment appointment based on seniority by credits. Advanced registration will begin on Monday, April 1.


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