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You Made it to the End of the Semester:

Let's Finish Strong! 




Greetings, Seawolf Families!


We are officially in the home stretch of the fall semester! We know you are eager for your student to finish their exams and head home to rest and recharge for their next semester.


While this month is full of excitement for winter break, it can also be one of the most stressful times in your student's academic career. Because of that, we want to take a moment to remind you of some amazing resources on campus that could help your student relax and remain focused as they prepare for their exams.

One great resource on campus for our students to check in with themselves mentally and physically is the Center for Prevention and Outreach (CPO).


Director of CPO, Kerri Mahoney sat down with us to best explain how the department can be a wonderful resource for our students!


What does the Center of Prevention and Outreach (CPO) provide for our Seawolves? 


Kerri Mahoney: The Center for Prevention Outreach or CPO is a department within Student Health, Wellness, and Prevention services that focus on educating, empowering, and connecting students to resources around their health and wellness. We cover the whole spectrum of health and wellness topics from mental health to physical health, alcohol and other drugs, and intimate partner violence. And we educate folks in different ways! We have a great Peer Education Program, we do workshops and trainings and we also do tabling around campus to talk about different topics. 


What kind of resources does CPO offer when it comes to stress management?


We have lots of different services and resources! I'll start with our mental health programming. We have different workshops and series that can always be found on SBEngaged. One example would be our Mental Health workshop series, where folks can come in and learn about what self-care looks like and healthy coping skills. We also have our CAPS PALS program, which stands for Pet Away Life Stress, which is an awesome program where our off-campus partners come, usually with dogs (we did have a pig come to campus back in August) and students can have a little place to relax and take their mind off of stressful things.


We teach students how to build the capacity to take care of themselves mentally, to identify, maybe when they're having a hard time. And then we also teach them how to connect with different resources on campus. So for example, when we're talking about mental health, we’ll be talking about our partner, CAPS, our Counseling and Psychological services, as a resource for students.


What about resources outside of stress management? 


For physical health, we have a lot of great stuff. We have a robust health products program which includes free menstrual hygiene products, and flu and cold kits because we're coming into that season. We also have things like first aid kits.


In addition to that, we have testing on campus. So we partner with the School of Nursing, for an awesome program that's called Pre-Medical Access to the Clinical Experience or PACE and it's where nursing students will come and do physical health assessments. They check out your sugar levels, your cholesterol, and your blood pressure. So it’s a great way for students to check in with their physical health.


As we approach the last few weeks of the fall semester and head into finals, does CPO offer any programs for students to destress? 


 Absolutely! We always host a Study Break Cafe throughout the entire week of finals and this year we are extending our hours. From December 11th through December 15th the study break cafe will be open from 12p.m. to 7p.m. in the Union. And folks can stop by to take that break from studying. We're going to have all the health products, we're going to have to go self-care kits like a DIY lava lamp, they can make their own sugar scrub among other things. There will also be free snacks. We're excited for that to return so students can take that break from being glued to their textbooks and come get what they need. 


We'll also be partnering with Student Engagement & Activity with their event: Relax in the SAC. That will be on December 8th from 4:30-7:30p.m. And CPO will be there to do a “silly self-care” where students make their own slime. And the whole idea behind that is to teach students that self-care doesn't have to be this set rigid thing. Self-care isn’t just getting your hair and makeup done, it doesn’t have to be this glamorous thing. It can be fun and playful. Maybe it’s just taking that 5-minute break to eat a snack or taking 30 minutes to watch an episode of your favorite show. We want both our students and families to know self-care is just doing something that prioritizes you and your health.


We understand this can also be a stressful time for our Seawolf families. What advice would you give to them?


So first, as a mom, although my babies are not in college yet, I would just remind them, that every parent, every guardian, everyone should practice self-care, in any way they can. And that’s going to look different depending on the individual. It sounds silly but just googling ‘self-care for parents’ can give some great ideas. There are also some really great YouTube channels that can help.


But aside from that, you should remind yourself that you did everything you could to raise this beautiful, brilliant child who is now out in the world; you did a really great job and they’re in college doing their thing! That alone is a huge, huge accomplishment.


How can our families best support their student during these last few weeks of the semester? 


I think the first step is just being familiar with what resources are offered to our students. Talk to your student about the health resources on campus and encourage them to look at the services offered by the departments of Student Health, Wellness, and Prevention. Just take a look through their websites. If they have social media, take a look through that as well, to understand what services they actually offer.


And even just being aware when you talk with them. If you're noticing a change in their baseline, if they're expressing to you, they're not feeling great. Maybe they normally shower every day and they now haven’t showered in a week. When you're starting to pick up some red flags that your student's not doing great, that's when we want to be even more active in saying, ‘Hey, There are these great resources to check out, I really think you should take advantage of them.’


To learn more about the Center for Prevention and Outreach, click here.

Tips from Students

This month, we hear from CPO's Peer Education Coordinator Sasha Kinova, a senior majoring in Chemistry, who speaks about how students can help de-stress and best prepare for their finals.

Sprinkling Support: Salt Shaker Parenting


Our metaphor of being a Salt Shaker parent means sprinkling your child with support, questions, and love in a gentle, subtle way.

Salt shaker

As parents, we all want our students to be academically successful at Stony Brook, and while it may be tempting to tell them to just study harder, there are much more impactful ways you can help! While studying is a key component to achievement and strong grades, there are other tools available that you can remind your student about. 


One of the primary indicators we see in successful students is the ability to find balance in their lives. Academic success is going to require many hours of studying and focus, but self-care and stress management are also necessary elements for a healthy scholar. You may gently suggest they take some time to connect with friends, do some deep breathing, or take a walk. Many students feel the best way to “ace their finals” is to stay up late cramming, but studies have shown that steady and consistent studying throughout the semester and a good night’s sleep before exams is what really works!


As you gently sprinkle support and ideas for success, remember your student is doing their best and will appreciate knowing you trust them.  They may not be willing to chat about their finals and the stress they are feeling, but an encouraging text message and a reminder of your love may be just what they need during finals week. 


Career and Internships

Graduating? Don't Forget About Us!


Is your student graduating this semester? First off, a huge congratulations to both you and them on an amazing accomplishment! Secondly, did you know when your student graudates from SBU they can still utilize the Career Center as a resource?


The Career Center offers various Alumni Career Services, including networking, career research, coaching and so much more!

Learn More About Alumni Career Services  

Campus Highlights

Annual Light the Brook Celebration Draws Largest Crowd Ever


Stony Brook University held its sixth annual Light the Brook celebration on November 8, lighting up the academic mall to honor the achievements of students and the wider campus community as the holiday season begins. This year’s event was hosted by the Undergraduate Student Government (USG) and sponsored by the Division of Student Affairs and SBU Eats.

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Stony Brook Joins Groundbreaking Partnership to Address Healthcare Disparities


A unique initiative to address the many healthcare disparities in the Latinx and migrant low-income communities will assess the social and legal hurdles that these populations face when receiving primary care medical services. The project involves researchers from Stony Brook University and four other universities.

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Campus News


8 Ways to Give Back to Stony Brook University

There are many ways to give back to Stony Brook University, from mentoring a student to helping stock a food pantry to making a gift that will support a student scholarship, pediatric research, or a performing arts or athletics program.  

Read more.


Stony Brook Athletics Announces New Partnership with FanWord

Stony Brook University Athletics has launched a new series dedicated to giving student-athletes a voice to tell their stories and connect with Seawolves fans on a more personal level.

Read more.


SoCJ Students Create Light in Dark Times

The live broadcast will bounce between students in the school’s on-campus production studio and student reporters in the field at holiday events in Port Jefferson and Smithtown. There will be stories about what the end-of-year holidays mean to people of different faiths and how food pantries help communities after the feasts of Thanksgiving. 

Read more.

Upcoming Events


A Winter Gathering at Stony Brook Southampton

Friday, December 8

7:00p.m.

Stony Brook Southampton, Chancellors Hall

Click here for more details


Annual Messiah Sing-Along

Sunday, December 10

4:00p.m - 6:00p.m.

Staller Center

Click here for more information.


The Nutcracker Ballet

Friday, December 15 - Sunday, December 17

Staller Center

Click here to purchase tickets.


Visit the Stony Brook Calendar for a full list of campus events.

Save the Date: Siblings Weekend


We know how important our Seawolf siblings are to our students and that's why we want to invite them for a special weekend!



Mark your calendars for the first-ever Siblings Weekend happening Friday, February 16 - Sunday, February 18, 2024. More details to come!


Have Questions? We Have Answers! 


My student is nervous about being prepared for their exams, where can they go for extra help?


Encourage them to make an appointment with the Academic Success and Tutoring Center by logging onto Navigate! Students can make an appointment for a one-on-one or small group session with a peer tutor. Students can also get great study tips by making an appointment with a skill-based tutor. The last day of appointments with the Center will be Monday, December 11, so encourage them to sign up sooner rather than later!


Students should also consider visiting their professor's office hours leading up to their final exam to ask any questions or to clarify any information they may need for their final. Click here to learn more about the Academic Success and Tutoring Center.


Is there a place on campus where my student can sell back their textbook?


Yes! Whether your student bought or rented a textbook they can visit the ShopRed Buyback Table located in the lower level of the Melville Library next to the Fedex Store. Students can sell back their textbooks from December 4 until December 16. All textbook rentals are due back by December 28. Click here to learn more.


Where can my student go if they need mental health services during the last few weeks of the semester?


We always recommend our students to make an appointment with the Counseling and Psychological Services (CAPS). Students can also use TimelyCare to access TalkNow, the 24/7, on-demand access to mental health professionals to talk about anything that's on their mind.


Have additional questions?

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familyservices@stonybrook.edu 

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