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Getting Involved on Campus:

How to Find Your Pack at Stony Brook 


Greetings, Seawolf Families!


As your student settles into a new semester and dives into their coursework, it's important to remember to focus on more than just academics, but also staying engaged by getting involved around campus!


Here at Stony Brook University, our Office of Student Life works hard to create fun programs and events for our Seawolves. As we like to say: "There's Always Something to do at SBU!"

Students have multiple opportunities to get involved and find their pack on campus, whether that be by joining a club or organization, checking out events through SBEngaged, or reading about them in our biweekly newsletter, Campus Connect.


Assistant Vice President and Dean of Students Ric McClendon sat down with us to give us the ins and outs of the Office of Student Life.


What does the Office of Student Life do for our Seawolves?


Dean Ric McClendon: The Office of Student Life consists of about eight different departments. Our focus is on co-curricular experiences, out-of-the-classroom experiences, supporting students, and building skills that align with their educational purpose, mission, and values.


We have over 400 clubs and organizations for students to join and find a community, make friends, build a network, and participate in activities that interest them. We also do a lot of identity and cultural development for students so they can not only discover themselves but also learn about other cultures that are different than their own.


Student Life also offers students opportunities for employment. We offer a lot of jobs throughout campus where students plan programs and activities, where students mentor students coming into Stony Brook, we have jobs where students get to articulate global issues and help students learn about those global issues. 


We do a variety of things within the Office of Student Life, but it's all about finding space and a sense of belonging here at Stony Brook. 


You, as the Dean of Students, are very active around campus. Why is creating a vibrant student life important for our Seawolf Families and their students?  


Whether you're a first-generation student or you are a student who's entering a legacy role, the Dean of Students and the team within Student Life, helps you navigate college; we’re someone who can answer those questions that you're too afraid to ask in a public setting. We are here to offer you support. 


‘When life gets tough and I don't know where to turn, how do I turn to someone who can guide me and support me?’ Student Life is the one when you have those great ideas and you're excited, maybe you're looking to get more support for your club through partnerships or you just have a dream and want to turn it into a reality, that’s what we’re all about. So being present allows students to not only see me in spaces and places and things that other students have developed with ideas and programs but also let them know that we're here to support you.


We're not just folks who are here nine to five. We are here when students are here. So I attend a lot of campus activities and programs because students put so much energy into these ideas. We want to be there to celebrate those accomplishments and those milestones.


If a student is struggling or feeling overwhelmed about finding their place here on campus, what advice would you give to them? 


I would always say, start with your peers. Your peers have already walked that path, been there, done that. So sometimes having another peer to talk those things through, to give you good advice is always the first step. When you feel like you don't have the right answer from that peer, always come to the Student Support Team. They're a group of professionals. They've got their hands in everybody's area. So I always tell students, always ask for help and seek out the Student Support Team, seek out your RA, your peer mentors, seek out your student instructors within the classroom, because someone's going to have that answer or they're going to know where to point you in that right direction.


What advice would you give to our parents who want to encourage their students to get involved and find their pack?


I always tell parents that we want them to be the coach in this process, to be the cheerleader in this process, to put their students in the driver's seat to be able to navigate the college playing field, but also to advocate for themselves. If we teach them these skill sets, they will be able to thrive in the workplace. They'll be able to thrive in any communities that they're going to be a part of after leaving home. And so a parent or family member is there to say, you can do this. You can tackle that roommate issue. You can tackle making new friends. You can tackle that assignment in class. You can tackle what's happening on the job. Because if they allow students to do it themselves, they build a skill set. 


To learn more about the Office of Student Life click here.

Tips from Students

When not focusing on school work, senior Psychology major, Alice Yang, has gotten involved by joining a sorority, taking a leadership role in the Women in Business club, and working with the Office of Student Life!


Hear how she found her pack here at Stony Brook below!

Sprinkling Support: Salt Shaker Parenting


Our metaphor of being a Salt Shaker parent means sprinkling your child with support, questions, and love in a gentle, subtle way.

Salt shaker

The start of the semester brings excitement for the many opportunities for student growth, learning, and connections available on campus.  Gently encouraging your student to get involved will provide reassurance as they begin to build their sense of belonging and community on campus. 


As parents, watching our children mature as university students can be an exciting and proud time for us. We see their intellectual capacity expand and are thrilled to hear them discussing material related to their areas of study. As students strengthen their academic skills, we also want them to build their confidence in establishing friendships and finding their circle of supporters at SBU. It is important for you, as family members, to encourage them to join clubs, an intramural team, or jump into one of the many opportunities available through Student  Engagement and Activities. 


While family members may worry that extracurricular activities and time with friends can take students away from the academic rigor that is required to be a successful student, these experiences will help them feel more connected and at peace. We all understand that a stressful day can be made a bit lighter when we have a friend to talk with. While some students find it easy to connect with new friends and build relationships, others may need some guidance and support along the way. We have a Peer Support Intern Program that can help with skills and ideas on how to build connections on campus. 


Take a few minutes to ask your student if they plan to be involved outside the classroom with any clubs or activities. Sprinkle them with support as they embark on these additional paths in meeting new people and exploring experiences on campus. If your student is unaware of where to begin, you can suggest they head over to the Rec Center or look through the CORQ app.  Remember, these connections can provide mentorship, build confidence, and expand their sense of belonging as a Seawolf!

The Career Corner

At the Career Center, we focus on getting your student ready to enter the workforce. Whether that is through an internship, an on-campus job, or landing their first post-graduation job, the Career Center is your one-stop shop for job resources!


February is the Month of Job & Internship Fairs!


  • Information Technology Job & Internship Fair: February 8
  • Engineering Job & Internship Fair: February 9
  • Business, Communication, & Journalism Job & Internship Fair: February 16
  • Healthcare, Research, & Helping Professions Job & Internship Fair: March 1


Click here to see more Career Center events.


Be sure to stop by the Career Center the week of each fair for special drop-in studio hours from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., where you can meet with a Career Coach and learn how to prepare for the fair!

Upcoming Career Events

Campus Highlights

Black History Month Events Begin with Unity Celebration


Stony Brook University kicks off Black History Month on Thursday, February 1, with the “Student Union Takeover: A Celebration of Culture and Unity,” presented by the Office of Diversity, Intercultural and Community Engagement (DICE), and the Black Student Union.


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Stony Brook Ranks Among 50 Best Graduate Programs for Entrepreneurs


For more than 20 years, the College of Business has offered graduate courses in entrepreneurship that are unique due to their interdisciplinary nature and experiential learning approach, mentorship experiences, and competitions.

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Campus News


SBU Eats Elevates Food Experiences for Spring

The SBU Eats team has been working diligently over the winter break to enhance the dining experience. In particular, the campus community will see changes in technology, food offerings, and sustainability.

Read more.


Melville Library Celebrates 60 Years of Knowledge, Innovation, and Community

Stony Brook University Libraries celebrated the 60th anniversary of the Melville Library in December with a special anniversary event.

The event, brimming with intellectual discussions, historical revelations, and a touch of nostalgia, celebrated the library’s rich heritage and its transformative journey over six decades.

Read more.


WSHU’s Higher Ground Podcast Goes National, Again

For the third time in as many years, a special news program about climate change and adaptation on Long Island and beyond will reach a national audience.

Read more.

Upcoming Events


Stony Brook Women's Basketball vs. Towson

Friday, February 8

6:30 p.m.

Island Federal Arena

Click here to purchase tickets


Stony Brook Men's Basketball vs. Hampton

Thursday, February 15

6:30 p.m

Island Federal Arena

Click here to purchase tickets


Celebrating Black Excellence Gala

Thursday, February 15

7:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m.

Union Ballroom

Click here to register.


John Lewis: Good Trouble (2020) Movie, Dinner and Discussion

Saturday, September 23

12p.m - 4p.m.

Student Activities Center Ballroom B

Click here for more info.


Visit the Stony Brook Calendar for a full list of campus events.

JUST AROUND THE CORNER: Siblings Weekend

It's the Countdown to Siblings Weekend!


Does your Seawolf Sibling want to know what it's like to be a college student? They're invited to come to campus for Siblings Weekend! On February 17 & 18 we'll have a variety of events for your student and their sibling to enjoy including a Lego Tournament, Guided Paint event, movie night, and more! 


Click here to learn more and register!

Have Questions? We Have Answers! 


When can my student apply for Financial aid for the 2024-2025 Academic Year?

The Free Application for Federal Student Aid (FASFA) is now available for the 2024-2025 Academic Year. Stony Brook's priority financial aid deadline has been extended to March 15, 2024. Packages will be released on a rolling basis, so please submit your FAFSA as soon as possible. To learn more on how to file click here.


When does Housing Selection open for the 2024-2025 Academic Year?

Current Residents who meet the eligibility for returning resident room selection apply in two phases. Phase 1 will open mid-February to early March and is the initial application in the housing portal. Phase 2 is room selection from late March to mid-April. Click here for more information.


My student is looking for professional attire for their upcoming job interviews. Does Stony Brook have any resources?


Yes! The Career Closet run by the Career Center is a resource for students to acquire FREE professional clothing and accessories that they may otherwise not be able to access. Students can "shop" the closet to select professional clothing. Click here to learn more.


Have additional questions?

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familyservices@stonybrook.edu 

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