St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


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Sunday Service - 10:00 am

Staying Connected

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Sunday Service Time: 10:00 am

in person and Live on Facebook

Sixth Sunday of Easter

We are now accepting donations via Venmo!

@StMarysStoneHarbor


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Rector's Corner


Dear Beloved Members and Friends of St. Mary's,


As we continue to navigate the evolving journey of our parish community, we find it increasingly important to understand and embrace who we are and where we are headed. With this goal in mind, we will soon undertake a Membership Audit. This process is essential in helping us gain a clearer picture of our congregation, which in turn will guide our decisions and initiatives moving forward.


At St. Mary's, membership has traditionally been based on the sacrament of Baptism, a beautiful and inclusive marker of our faith. However, this broad criterion, while spiritually significant, poses practical challenges in distinguishing between Active and Non-active members, especially given our unique position as a seasonal church community.


Our aim is not merely to update records but to deepen our connection with each one of you. We understand that this audit may lead to inadvertent errors, such as mistakenly categorizing active members as nonactive, particularly among our seasonal members who cherish St. Mary’s as their spiritual home away from home.


We ask for your patience and understanding as we undertake this necessary step towards better stewardship of our community resources and more effective ministry. If you are a seasonal member, or if there are any concerns about your membership status, please do not hesitate to reach out directly to me at your earliest convenience. Ensuring your inclusion and recognizing your valued part in our community is paramount to us.


Thank you for your continued support and for the love and grace you share with our community. Together, we strive to make St. Mary's a beacon of faith and fellowship, rooted in the love of Christ and dedicated to serving each other and the world around us.


With gratitude and prayers,


Mo. Allison+

Rector, St. Mary’s Episcopal Church

St. Mary's Membership Audit

Who Are Members?


The Episcopal Church does have membership criteria. These aren’t meant to say who is "in" or who is "out", but instead, to establish who has taken an intentional step to be part of a worshiping community and who is either still discerning or someone we should invite to join us on this faith journey!


Church membership is defined by the canons of the Episcopal Church, specifically Title I, Canon 14 and Title 1, Canon 17 along with the Diocesan Constitution Article XIV and Canon 5.


That said, there is only one standard of membership in the Church, which is Baptism.


Baptism


In the Episcopal Church a member is a person who has received the Sacrament of Holy Baptism (with water in the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit) whether in the Episcopal Church or another Christian Church, and whose baptism has been duly recorded in the Episcopal Church.


If you have been baptized, it should be recorded in the Church Register (a book used to keep track of such things). If you know you were baptized but don't know if it was ever recorded in that church’s Register, you can contact them and ask, or you may provide the church, city, and approximate date to the Parish Administrator and they will look into it. If we find it wasn’t recorded, your baptism can be recorded in our Church Register, and even if it was recorded at another church, we would like to add you to the list of “Baptized” in our Church Register.


Communicant / Adult Communicant


A Baptized Member (i.e. baptism is recorded) who receives Holy Communion at least three times during the preceding year is a Communicant. A Communicant who is at least sixteen years of age is considered an Adult Communicant.


Communicant in Good Standing


A Communicant who, for the previous year has been faithful in corporate worship at St. Mary's (i.e. you come to church, unless for good cause are unable to do so) and have been faithful in working, praying, and giving for the spread of the Kingdom of God is a Communicant in Good Standing. “Giving” is most easily reflected by monetary gifts but isn't required to be.


Being a Communicant in Good Standing is often the criteria for being elected to leadership positions. You also are required to be a Communicant in Good Standing to be a Convention Lay Delegate, which is why after an election we provide a form to the Diocesan Office on which the Rector, Warden or Clerk affirms that you are.


If you are Not a Communicant in Good standing, you will be removed from the "Active membership database"


What about Confirmation and Reception?


You may have noticed the membership criteria above doesn't include Confirmation or Reception. This is because Confirmation isn’t about membership, but the mature public affirmation of faith and the commitment of an individual to the responsibilities of their Baptism, and Reception is a way for those confirmed in another denomination to be formally welcomed into the Episcopal tradition.


***Membership Transfers from Another Episcopal Parish***


Members of the Episcopal Church (Baptized, Confirmed, or Received) are usually recorded in the parish register of the church where they worship. If you would like your membership transferred from another Episcopal church to St. Mary's, please contact our Parish Administrator. She will contact your previous church and arrange for a transfer of your “letter", as it is often called. Upon completion, we will record your name in our parish register. If for some reason your name was not recorded in that church’s register, the rector may approve registration in our parish register.

Strawberry Fest May 26th!

Join Us for the Annual Strawberry Festival at

St. Mary's! 🍓✨


Come one, come all! We’re thrilled to invite you back to our much-anticipated Strawberry Festival on Sunday, May 26th at St. Mary’s! Last year, we welcomed over 300 guests, and this year, we aim to make it even bigger and better.


Date: Sunday, May 26th

Time: 6:00 - 8:00

Location: St. Mary's Church


Celebrate Community and Sweetness!

Dive into the sweetness with 40 quarts of fresh strawberries donated by Mo. Allison and Lisa, along with a myriad of homemade treats prepared by our loving community members. But that’s not all—our local merchants have outdone themselves this year with some incredible donations for our raffle baskets. It’s a chance to win big while supporting a great cause!


We Still Need Your Help!

To make this event as delightful as last year, we need generous donations of whipped cream, and we're also seeking small bowls, cups, and plates to serve up our strawberry treats. Every little bit helps in making this day special for everyone.


And don't forget, we will have a wash and prep party to prepare.


Why Join Us?

Not only is the Strawberry Festival a fantastic way to spend a day full of fun, laughter, and community bonding, it’s also a crucial fundraiser for our ongoing projects. Your participation means more than just a great time—it supports our community and our goals.


How to Get Involved:


Bring Supplies: Sign up in the Hall to bring goodies or essentials.

Enter the Raffle: Don’t miss out on our fabulous raffle baskets.

Volunteer: We always need extra hands!

Come for the strawberries, stay for the fun, and leave with a heart full of joy. We can’t wait to see you there!


For more information and to RSVP, please contact Lisa Lisala0329@gmail.com or Dina ziels@comcast.net

Ladies' Tea with the Bishop

Church of the Advent, 612 Franklin St., Cape May, will be hosting the Bishop at a tea sponsored by the five Episcopal Churches in Cape May County on Sunday, May 5 at 4 pm. If you would like to contribute food for the tea, please let Carol Obligado cobligado@aol.com 609-972-1820 know.

Forward Day by Day

Read, Reflect, Respond, Pray - Forward Day by Day is an inspiring daily devotional to begin your day with.

The May, June, July issue is now available in the church narthex. Please help yourself to a copy and feel free to take one for a friend who may enjoy having it. If you would like us to mail a one to you, please let the church office know and we will be glad to send it.

Stewardship Minute

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To All of our members and friends


Please consider making a donation or pledge for 2024 if you haven't already.


Your support of our mission and ministry is important to us.

Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
Visit our Website

We have now joined Venmo! If you have Venmo, you can donate to the church - @StMarysStoneHarbor


http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

St. Mary's This 'n That Thrift Shop

Are you spring cleaning - cleaning up and cleaning out? St. Mary's This 'n That Thrift and Furniture Shop welcomes your household goods, clothing and furniture in good useable condition.


Donations may be dropped off on the first Saturday of the month, and Tuesdays and Thursdays 10-3. We appreciate all you give.



Located in the Village Shoppes, 1304 Rt 47 South, Rio Grande.

609-886-7272

Hours: Tuesday - Saturday 10 - 4 pm

Coffee Hour

Coffee Hour is held after service every Sunday in the parish hall. It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee. If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up. Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee. You can find the sign up sheet on the door to the kitchen. Thank you!

Upcoming Events

Sunday Service - 10:00 am

12 Step Meetings in the Church Hall


Narcotics Anonymous (NA) Monday at 7:30 pm



Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) Tuesday at 8:00 pm


Big Book Meeting (AA) Thursday 7:00 pm


Alanon will resume this summer.

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May 12 Mother's Day


May 26 Strawberry Festival 6 to 8 pm


May 27 Memorial Day

CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.

Sixth Sunday of Easter

Acts 10:44-48

1 John 5:1-6

John 15:9-17

Psalm 98

Worship Services

Tuesday - Friday 8:30 am Morning Prayer via Zoom

Sunday Service Time: 10:00 am

and Live on Facebook

Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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