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JEWISH COMMUNITY
CENTER OF
LONG BEACH ISLAND
E-LETTER
May 31, 2024
23 Iyar 5784
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June 4, 2024
28 Iyar 5784
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A SHABBAT MESSAGE FROM RABBI JAY
At the beginning of Parashat Bechukotai, the Torah tells us that if we do good, by following the commandments in the Torah, we will be blessed. But, if we fail to follow its rules, then we will be cursed. As if to highlight the negative aspect, the listing of curses is much longer than the listing of blessings. Indeed, the curses become increasingly grotesque.
With the pronouncement of blessings and curses, there is an underlying message that is easily missed because of its subtlety. Ultimately, the ability to receive a blessing or a curse resides within us. Through Free Will we determine whether to do God’s bidding, or not. The message? Our destiny, at least where God and good deeds are concerned, is within our control.
Free will permits us to make decisions, but it does not protect us from the consequences of those decisions. This is where things become complicated. Why are we given a choice? Why doesn’t God snap God’s Godly fingers and pronounce: “From now on people will only do the right things!”
I think God places the onus on us because God wants to be in relationship with us, and a relationship is only “real” if both parties to it make choices about that relationship.
God is literally saying: “Make the correct choices and, together, We will be happy and prosper. But if you make the wrong choice, together, We are all going to suffer.” The “We” is God, the Israelites, the land, and everything in and on the land.
The Israelites are given two distinct visions of their future. They are given a choice about which to follow. To us, as readers, the choice seems to be a “no-brainer”. But as we continue reading the Torah, and as we study Jewish history, even recent Jewish history, we know that, even given the best of information, the correct choices are not always made. We are an interesting people.
What are we to learn from this? In our lives we always have choices. Some are near epic and some are mundane; but we are presented with options just the same. The choices we make do not only impact us. Our decisions impact the lives of individuals and our community as a whole. Your Free Will is not a gift for you to use to serve your singular purpose. Exercise it in such a way that the community around you will benefit. Make God proud of our relationship.
And so concludes the Book of Leviticus. The beauty of Torah is that there are no endings; the story continues; it moves in nuanced words that shift in meaning from person to person, place to place, and era to era. Choice, alternative, option; use them to better yourself, strengthen community, and to enhance your relationship with the Holy One.
Chazak, Chazak, V’Nitchazeik – Be Strong, Be strong, and may we be Strengthened.
Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay
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Shabbat Candle
Lighting time
Friday evening
May 31, 2024
8:00 PM
Friday, May 31, 2024
JOIN US FOR
SERVICES
7:30 PM
IN PERSON
& ON ZOOM
Here is
your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services
FRIDAY NIGHT
Saturday,
June 1, 2024
9:00 AM
IN PERSON &
ON ZOOM
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your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services
SHABBAT
TORAH READING
Parashat Bechukotai
Leviticus 26:3-27:34
Bechukotai (“In My Laws”) is the final Torah portion in the Book of Leviticus. It begins describing blessings that follow obedience to God's laws and curses that come with desecration of them. It ends with laws of vows and consecration of people and property.
Here is Parshah
HAFTORAH
Jeremiah 16:19-17:14
The haftorah discusses the punishments that await those who disregard G‑d's law, and the blessings that are the lot of those who follow the Creator's wishes. This follows the theme of this week's Torah reading which details at length the blessings and curses.
Here is the Haftorah
HAVDALLAH
8:30 PM
ON ZOOM ONLY
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your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services
HAVDALLAH
WEEKDAY SERVICES
Monday - Thursday
Ma'ariv Service
7:30 PM
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from Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
MA'ARIV
Monday- Friday
Shacharit Service
8:15 AM
Sunday at 9:00 AM
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join Zoom services:
SHACHARIT
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EREV SHAVUOT SERVICES
Tuesday, June 11
7:00 PM In Person & Zoom
Service & Study (Tikkum)
Wednesday, June 12
10:00 AM In Person & Zoom
7:30 PM Zoom only
Thursday, June 13
10:00 AM In Person & Zoom
Yiskor (11:30)
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SUNDAY, June 2
Pickleball
10:00 AM
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MONDAY, June 3
Choosing Hope Class
TUESDAY, June 4
Pickleball
3:00 PM
Beginning Hebrew
with Ira
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WEDNESDAY, June 5
Canasta & Mah Jongg
12:30 PM
Pirkei Avot, the Ethics of our Ancestors Class
7:50 PM
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THURSDAY, June 6
Pickleball
10:00 AM
Torah Study with Rabbi
11:00 AM
Intermediate Hebrew with Ira
2:00 PM
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FRIDAY, June 7
Studying the Prophets
with Rabbi Jay
9:00 AM
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MAH JONGG & CANASTA
WEDNESDAYS
12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM
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PICKLEBALL
SUNDAY 10:00 AM
TUESDAY 3:00 PM
THURSDAY 10:00 AM
Reminder: Pickleball for
members only!
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YOM YERUSHALAYIM
June 4, 2024
28 Iyar 5784
After Israel declared its independence in 1948, it was attacked by the neighboring Arab countries, resulting in the Arab-Israeli War. At the end of this war, the city of Jerusalem was divided. Israeli forces controlled most of the city and East Jerusalem, including the Old City, was controlled by Jordanian forces.
On June 7, 1967 Israeli forces captured the old city of Jerusalem. This resulted in the reunification of Jerusalem as part of Israel. According to the Hebrew calendar, it was the 28th day of the month of Iyar in the year 5727 and the anniversary of this date is known as Yom Yerushalayim or Jerusalem Day.
Yom Yerushalayim is a national and Hebrew holiday in Israel and is marked with a range of events in many Jewish communities. These include: recitations of the Hallel prayer for praise and thanksgiving in synagogues; street parades, parties, singing and dancing; special meals; and lectures on the history and future of Jerusalem.
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REMEMBERING THE JCC TRIP TO ISRAEL....Ira Morgenthal
Yom Yerushalaim
When I heard someone mention that Yom Yersualaim, Jerusalem Day, would be observed next week, it brought back memories of the JCC trip to Israel in 2018. One of the highlights of the trip was a visit to Ammunition Hill, which commemorates Israel’s victory in the battle of Jerusalem during the Six Day War (1967). The victory marked the reunification of Jerusalem as Israel’s capital, which it has been, since 1010BCE.
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Ammunition Hill got its name from its use by Britain as a storehouse for weapons during the period of the Mandate (1919-1948). In the museum are two special artifacts: an Israeli flag and a worn siddur. These were the property of an elderly widow who kept them after she and all the Jews were evicted from the Jewish Quarter of the old city in 1949, after which Jordan destroyed the Jewish Quarter.
After the Six Day war began, the elderly woman went to one of her neighbors, Major (later General) Mordechai Gur, the commander of the Paratroop battalion charged with liberating the old city. She asked him to take her flag and her late husband’s siddur with him into battle. Major Gur accepted the items and left to join his troops. When the soldiers reached the Kotel (western wall) of the temple, they stormed the temple mount bringing Judaism’s holiest site back under Jewish control for the first time in nearly 2,000 years.
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Major Gur remembered the flag and gave it to his troops to drape over the top of the wall (a very famous photograph of this moment was then taken). Realizing that a service was called for, Major Gur called for the Chief Rabbi of the IDF to come to the site. The Rabbi came so quickly he forgot to bring a prayer book. Major Gur then remembered the book his neighbor had given him, and he handed it to the Rabbi. After the service, the Rabbi hand signed the book in honor of the occasion. Both the book and flag are on display at the Ammunition Hill Museum. Ammunition Hill was the site of the final battle for Jerusalem, in which IDF soldiers fought uphill against entrenched Jordanian troops, and defeated them, to end the battle of Jerusalem with a final victory.
After a morning visit to Yad Vashem, it was a truly memorable day.
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Blessing our Pets on Sunday | | |
Rabbi Jay and President Phil Rosenzweig at the Spray Beach Yacht Club. Rabbi gave the inaugural blessing. | | |
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JUNE SHABBAT DINNER
Friday, June 7th
6:30 PM followed by services at 7:30
MENU
Smokey Joes
Whitefish Salad, Nova Lox, Lettuce, Tomato & Cream Cheese
Veggie Joes
Eggpant, Zucchini, Yellow Squash, Roasted Peppers, Portobello Mushrooms,
w/ Lettuce, Tomato & Red Onions, Topped with Balsamic Vinegrette,
Salad
Special Dessert
$25 per person
Contact the JCC office to make your reservation
609-492-4090
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SHABBAT ON THE BEACH SERVICES
JUNE DATES
Friday, June 14 @ 6:00 PM
Shabbat on the Beach
Loveladies
Friday, June 21 @ 6:00 PM
Shabbat on the Beach
Spray Beach
Friday, June 28 @ 6:00 PM
Shabbat on the Beach
Loveladies
CLICK HERE FOR BULLETIN WITH ALL THE SUMMER DATES
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Sunday, June 9 @ 11-1 PM
WAX Welcome to Summer Brunch at the JCC
Friday, June 14 @ 5:30 PM
Blessing of Fleet at Viking Village
Wednesday, June 19 @ 4:00 PM
WAX Book Review
Friday, June 21 @ 6:00 PM
Shabbat on the Beach
Spray Beach
Sunday, June 23
JCC Membership Brunch at the JCC
Friday, June 28 @ 6:00 PM
Shabbat on the Beach in Loveladies
Sunday, June 30 @ 4 - 6 PM
Interfaith Concert with
The Island Singers
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WAX HONEY FROM THE HEART SALE BEGINS JUNE 3
This distinctive 8-ounce jar of kosher honey arrives in time for Rosh Hashanah, decorated with a festive label, and includes a personalized card reading “Shana Tova—Wishing you a Healthy and Happy New Year.” A card also lets the recipients know that a donation has been made in their honor to the Women’s Auxiliary of the JCC of LBI. Details to follow.
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PAID UP WAX MEMBERSHIP BRUNCH | |
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PAID UP WAX MEMBERSHIP BRUNCH
Sunday, June 9 at 11:00 AM
PAID WAX MEMBERS ONLY
BRUNCH WILL BE SERVED
Guest Speaker: Phyllis Sisenwine, Certified Personal Coach
RSVP Diane Buskirk by June 5 (856-952-5940)
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BLESSING OF THE FLEET AT VIKING VILLAGE IN BARNEGAT LIGHT
Sunday, June 16, 2024 at 5:30
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JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION
WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM
NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING
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NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING
Wednesday, June 19th at 4:00 PM
Discussion Leader: TBA
A Castle in Brooklyn By: Shirley Russak Wachtel
1944, Poland. Jacob Stein and Zalman Mendelson meet as boys under terrifying circumstances. They survive by miraculously escaping, but their shared past haunts and shapes their lives forever. Years later, Zalman plows a future on a Minnesota farm. In Brooklyn, Jacob has a new life with his wife, Esther. When Zalman travels to New York City to reconnect, Jacob’s hopes for the future are becoming a reality. With Zalman’s help, they build a house for Jacob’s family and for Zalman, who decides to stay. Modest and light filled, inviting and warm with acceptance—for all of them, it’s a castle to call home. Then an unforeseeable tragedy—and the grief, betrayals, and revelations in its wake—threatens to destroy what was once an unbreakable bond, and Esther finds herself at a crossroads. A Castle in Brooklyn is a moving and heartfelt immigration story about finding love and building a home and family while being haunted by a traumatic past.
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INTERFAITH CONCERT
WITH THE ISLAND SINGERS
SUNDAY AFTERNOON JUNE 30TH
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FAMILY CIRCUS AND JUGGLING
Sunday, July 7 @7:00 PM
at the JCC
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New Vaudeville!
The Next Generation of Jester
Ben Lipman combines juggling, magic, mime, and circus arts from around the world, giving vaudeville entertainment a modern attitude. He performs mesmerizing daring stunts while the audience becomes part of the show, captivating crowds of all ages.
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Cost is $25 per adult and Children under 18 is $18.
Please RSVP to Jill Denker at Jill.Denker@hotmail.com by 7/1/24
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The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:
Samuel Rosenweig
Elaine Berkowitz
Milton Britz*
Jerome Molbert*
Scott L. Paley
Esther Rosenfeld
Joseph Tomar
Josephine Cramer
Dr. Harry Herman*
David Kaplan
Elizabeth Piwosky
Isidor Rothstein
Bernice Szanger*
Elaine Frand
Martin Garb
Abraham Joseph Kates*
Jerome Staley Katz*
Herbert Kramer
Kate Alexander
Mark Babbitt
Richard Gardner, MD
Vera Lipman
Harry Solomon*
Judith Weinstein
Leona Adelman
Louis Gilman
Lilian Herman
Betty Lander
Esther Epstein*
Gussie Meyerson*
We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 7:45 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.
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Lawrence Lerner
June 2
Robin Rosenzweig-DeCarlo
June 2
Lisa Ziff-Riley
June 3
Louis Celebre
June 4
Michael Nissenblatt
June 4
Rosalee Keech
June 5
Lee Gardner
June 6
Ira Morgenthal
June 6
Marc Rubin
June 6
Phyllis Lishnoff
June 7
Bev Rosenberg
June 7
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David & Debra Levy
June 3
40th Anniversary
Alan & Debra Traster
June 3
13th Anniversary
Michael & Irene Babst
June 4
13th Anniversary
Marc & Judith Lipman
June 4
54th Anniversary
Jeffrey & Susan Carson
June 5
47th Anniversary
Roy & Ellen Konwiser
June 7th
60th Anniversary
Sylvain Nakkab & Myrna Herman
June 7th
32nd Anniversary
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Mark Chazin, with his grandson, ELY, who just played on the Israeli lacrosse team against the Philippines in the Heritage Cup games at Haverford College. Israel won 8-7 in overtime.
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INA & IRA MORGENTHAL
Grandson Matthew Gatto will be graduating from the Ocean County Police Academy. After graduation he will begin working for the Seaside Park Police Department.
Grandson Nicholas Gatto will be graduating from Southern Regional High School in the top 25 of his class. Nicholas will be attending Rutgers University Honors College in the fall.
Granddaughter Samantha Morgenthal is graduating from Franklin Township Middle School and will entering Franklin High School in the fall.
TAMMARA & ALAN JACOBSON
Daughter Alexandra (Lexi) Jacobson is celebrating her High school graduation. She will be attending University of Florida this summer .
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SEND ANNOUNCEMENTS OF YOUR GRADUATES TO rvalen1963@aol.com.
PICTURES ARE WELCOME
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CARING COMMITTEE
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.
973-634-5349
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SHARE YOUR NEWS
AND PICTURES
CONTACT:
rvalen1963@aol.com
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JCC Member Carl Steinberg is looking for a
tennis partner this summer.
Give him a call if you are interested. 215-530-6352
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YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.
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GIVING OPPORTUNITIES
PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"
SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
PAVER FORM
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.
Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:
dihoff1@aol.com
PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book
TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES
TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180
ENDOWMENT FUND
Herb z"l and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.
Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.
A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.
YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary.
Here is the order form:
YAHRZEIT
KOL HAKAVOD
Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD
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2023 MEMBERSHIP FORMS
Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:
RENEW NOW
And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:
JOIN NOW
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JCC FUNDS
Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.
ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.
GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.
KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.
RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.
ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
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JCC LEADERSHIP
OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Rose Valentine
Treasurer- Ira Morgenthal
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst
BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt
Diane Buskirk
Jon Geier
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Paul Levine
Ken Podos
Terri Robinovitz
David Shatz
Bonni Rubin-Sugarman
WOMEN'S AUXILIARY
President - Diane Buskirk
Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll
Co-Vice President - Jill Denker
Treasurer - Suzy Geier
Secretary - Joanne Babbitt
Immediate Past President - Irene Babst
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