JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER


September 22, 2023

7 Tishri 5784


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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

How do we fight the rampant antisemitism that I discussed on Rosh Hashanah? On way is to be ambassadors for our people. When we hear about antisemitism we need to remind ourselves, and others, of the many great ideas that our people and our tradition have introduced to the world:


Judaism’s 10 Best Ideas, Rabbi Arthur Green

 

B’TZELEM ELOHIM – Humanity is created in God’s image. If God is holy and we are created in God’s image, then we are holy. The individual may never be sacrificed for the mass.  The rich and poor, great and small, are equal before God.” 

 

TORAH - Judaism is a civilization built around a Text. Torah literally means teaching. It is the story of God and the creation of the world and the Jewish people. But it is more than that. Torah is a guidebook on how to live a just and good life. Never lose sight of this fact. Every line of Torah has a message to teach and an idea to learn.

 

HALAKH: WALKING THE PATH - By studying Torah, the Rabbis established Jewish laws. We call these laws Halakha. Most translate Halakha as law. But its literal translation is “walking” and we morph that translation into “walking a path”. The path we walk is in God’s ways.  We learn that just as God feeds the hungry, clothes the naked, visits the sick, and buries the dead; we should do these things as well.

 

TALMUD TORAH: TEACH THEM TO YOUR CHILDREN

In the Shema we learn that we must teach Torah to our children. It is the Mitzvah of passing the legacy of our tradition from generation to generation. Our lives are bridges between those who came before and those who will come later. We are the living link between our grandparents and our grandchildren. Passing on our heritage is a holy task.

 

TIKKUN OLAM - We usually translate this as “Repairing the World”. It is the recognition that the world in which we live, and the people living in it, are broken and it is up to us to make it and them better. Bettering the world, relieving human suffering, achieving peace and mutual respect among individuals and peoples, and protecting the planet from self-destruction.

 

But it also has to do with each of us….In our rush to survive, accomplish and excel, we have forgotten what it means to live in God’s world and to celebrate the sacredness of life.

 

SHABBAT - Before Shabbat, humanity made places holy. Shabbat made time holy. It sounds so simple. Take one prescribed day off a week. 24 hours of staying away from the mundane. It would be nice to just turn it all off for a day. But it seems to be nearly impossible.

 

TESHUVAH - Repentance or return. What a gift it is to know that if we have done something wrong, we can return back to our correct ways and be forgiven.

 

LCHAYIM! TO LIFE. - We sanctify life. We are taught to live by Torah. We are not taught to die by Torah. Every Mitzvah in Torah is superseded in order to save a life.

 

EHAD: HEAR O ISRAEL, THERE IS ONLY ONE GOD.

Why is this important? Because it means we all come from one place….One originator. In other religions and cultures, different Gods compete with each other. In the Jewish tradition , there are no competing interests. 

 

Please also remember to be an Ambassador for Israel.

Unlike its neighbors, Israel has laws requiring the equal treatment of women and those living alternative lifestyles.

 

Israel is at the forefront of technological innovation. Israel helps other countries to farm more efficiently. Israel helps other countries to work on water scarcity by showing others how to desalinate water. Israel is the first to send rescue supplies and people to countries destroyed by natural disasters.

 

While it, like the US and other countries, is not perfect, it is still the only homeland of the Jewish people.

 

Finally, is there one thing you will be praying for this year over all others? If so, let me know what it is. Email me at mjayrab@gmail.com.

 

Shabbat Shalom – G’mar Chatimah Tovah (May you be inscribed in the Good book) – Rabbi Michael S. Jay


Candle Lighting time

Friday evening

September 22, 2023

6:37 pm

(Southern Ocean County)


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SERVICES


SHABBAT SHUVAH

refers to the Shabbat that occurs during the Ten Days of Repentance between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. Only one Shabbat can occur between these dates. This Shabbat is named after the first word of the Haftarah (Hosea 14:2-10) and literally means “Return!” 


Friday Night

September 22, 2023

7:30 PM

IN PERSON AND ON ZOOM

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday Morning

September 23, 2023

9:00 AM

Services

IN PERSON AND ON ZOOM


Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT MORNING


TORAH READING

Parashat Ha’azinu

Deuteronomy 32:1-32:52

Here is the Parshah

PARSHAH


HAFTORAH

 Hosea 14:2-10; Joel 2:15-27 

Here is the Haftorah

HOSEA

JOEL


.WEEKDAY

SERVICES


Sunday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

NO SERVICE 9/24 & 9/25

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

NO SERVICE 9/25

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT

SUKKOT SERVICE SCHEDULE

Erev Sukkot

Friday, Sept. 29th

at 7:30 PM


Sukkot

Saturday, Sept. 30th

Sunday, Oct. 1st

at 10:00 AM


Simchat Torah

Sh’mini Atzeret - Yizkor Recited

Saturday, Oct. 7th

at 10:00 AM


Erev Simchat Torah

Saturday,October 7th

at 6:00 PM


Simchat Torah

Sunday, Oct. 8th

at 10:00 AM

Thank you to Renee Ward for the beautiful bimah flowers on Rosh Hashanah

YOM KIPPUR BEGINS ON SUNDAY EVENING, SEPTEMBER 24. 2023


CANDLELIGHTING

6:33 PM

(Southern Ocean County)




TICKETS ARE NOT NEEDED FOR YISKOR

MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 25

AT APPROXIMATELY 11:15 AM

OR FOR

MINCHA, MA'ARIV AND NE'ILAH AT 5:30 PM

AND THE FINAL SHOFAR BLOWING AT 7:30 PM


HERE IS THE HIGH HOLIDAY SERVICE SCHEDULE

THIS WEEK'S ACTIVITIES


TUESDAY, September 26

Pickleball

3:00 PM Beginners Session

4:00 PM Regular Play

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WEDNESDAY, September 27

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM

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THURSDAY, September 28

Pickleball

10:00 AM


Torah Study with the Rabbi

11:00 AM 


INTERMEDIATE HEBREW CLASS WITH IRA

2:00 PM

Contact Ira for more information

inaira213@gmail.com



CLICK FOR THE THURSDAY TORAH STUDY

PICKLEBALL


SUNDAY 10:00 AM

No Sunday Pickeball

9/24,10/1 and 10/8

TUESDAY 3:00 PM

THURSDAY 10:00 AM




Pickleball will start at 3:00 and we invite people who have never played and want to learn to play, or people who want to practice and improve their serve or net play, to attend at that time. We will still play from 4-6.


Reminder: Pickleball for members only!

MAH JONGG & CANASTA


WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM

UPCOMING ACTVITIES


Decorating the Sukkah

Thursday, September 28th and 29th (if needed)


WAX Brunch in Sukkah

Thursday, October 5

11 am - 1 pm


18-Mile Run

Sunday, October 8



Walk the Bridge & Brunch at Old Causeway Inn

Sunday, October 15 at 10:30 AM


Boscov’s Friends and Family, In-person Shopping Only

Wednesday, October 18


WAX Book Group

Wednesday, October 18 at 4:00 PM


 An evening with Carl Steinberg: “A Bob Dylan Night”

Saturday, October 21 at 7:30 PM


Pinelands Walk with Lisa

Thursday, October 26 (Rain Date October 27)


PJP Zoom Program

Itzhak Brook “A Physician’s Personal Account of the Yom Kippur War”

Thursday, October 26 at 8:30 PM


Click here to RSVP for the Walk

JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING

Wednesday, October 18th at 4:00 PM

Discussion Leader: TBA

A Pigeon and a Boy: A Novel By Meir Shale


During the 1948 War of Independence—a time when pigeons are still used to deliver battlefield messages—a gifted young pigeon handler is mortally wounded. In the moments Wednesday, November 15th at 4:00 PM Discussion Leader: TBA Code Name Sapphire By: Pam Jenoff 1942. Hannah Martel has narrowly escaped Nazi Germany after her fiancé was killed in a pogrom. When her ship bound for America is turned away at port, she has nowhere to go. 2 3 Volume 16/ Issue 6 before his death, he dispatches one last pigeon. The bird is carrying his extraordinary gift to the girl he has loved since adolescence. Intertwined with this story is the contemporary tale of Yair Mendelsohn, who has his own legacy from the 1948 war. Yair is a tour guide specializing in bird-watching trips who, in middle age, falls in love again with a childhood girlfriend. His growing passion for her, along with a gift from his mother on her deathbed, becomes the key to a life he thought no longer possible. Unforgettable in both its particulars and its sweep,


A Pigeon and A Boy is a tale of lovers then and now—of how deeply we love, of what home is, and why we, like pigeons trained to fly in one direction only, must eventually return to it. In a voice that is at once playful, wise, and altogether beguiling, Meir Shalev tells a story as universal as war and as intimate as a winged declaration of love.


NEW PROGRAMS WITH PJP


Thanks to our membership in the PJP we were able to enjoy a variety of programs last year. Here are the new programming lists. We will send out a Reminder and Link prior to each event. No need to register in advance.

LOOK FOR INFORMATION ON THE NEXT PROGRAM:

Thursday, October 26 @ 8:30 PM

Itzhak Brook “A Physician’s Personal Account of the Yom Kippur War”


PJP Series "What Jews Think”

2023-2024

SEE PROGRAM DETAILS HERE

PJP Travel Programs

2023-2024

SEE PROGRAM DETAILS HERE
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If you would like to order a paver for this 2023 installation, please fill out the form ( click below ) and return it to the JCC office with payment.

CLICK HERE FOR THE PAVER WORK SHEET

CONGREGATION NEWS


The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Helaine Bennett

Zena Josephson*

Michael Norman Kreiger*

Leo Slomovitz

Stuart Elkind

Jill Sisenwine Berger

Philip Millstein*

Karl Rebarber

Hannah Resnek

Freda Black

Eva Braun

Sara Jacobs Fink*

Arthur Petter

Beatrice Smith*

Jerome Koransky

Madeliene Margolis

Dina Singer

Belle Wolpert

Morris Freeman

Betty Pacharz

Fanny Troum*

Henry Gaulton

Rose Kincus

Henry Melin


We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.

CLICK HERE FOR EVENING SERVICE
CLICK HERE FOR MORNING SERVICE

CONDOLENCES TO


Michelle Ehrich

on the loss of her husband

Andrew Ross

on September 14, 2023

Cake

Howard Babbitt

September 23

Charles Hirsh

September 23

Sylvia Horowitz

September 24

Aaron Karp

September 24

Arlene Silverman

September 24

Arthur Steinberg

September 25

Paul Carniol

September 26

Marc Andrew Landis

September 26

Darlene Gardner

September 27

Stewart Cofsky

September 28

Joyce Davis

September 28

Alan Goldsmith

September 29

Jerome Marcus

September 29

Jill Yudman

September 29



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CONTACT: 

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CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349 


YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES

PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"

SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.

Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:


PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book


TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES


TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180


ENDOWMENT FUND

Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.

Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.

A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
 
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 


YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 
Here is the order form: 


KOL HAKAVOD

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

2023 MEMBERSHIP FORMS

Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:

And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
JCC LEADERSHIP

OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Rose Valentine
Treasurer- Ira Morgenthal
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst

BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt 
Diane Buskirk
Mitch Frumkin

Jon Geier

Paul Levine

Ken Podos

Terri Robinovitz

David Shatz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman



WOMEN'S AUXILIARY


President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2

CLOSED THURSDAY



 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Irene Babst

Contributing Columnist

Sheila Weisel