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What significant things can happen in 17 years?
17 years is almost the time it would take to raise a child. If you were in the military, 17 years would put you close to the 20-year point when you could retire. 17 years in a marriage would put you on a good path to a lifelong marriage. Cicadas go underground for 17 years before they appear with all their noise and chirping. If you deposited $100.00 17 years ago and $100.00 each month at 4% interest, you would have $29,149.00.
17 years breaks down into 204 months, 6205 days, 148,920 hours, and 8,935,200 minutes. Hopefully you can look back on your past 17 years and list major accomplishments and changes in your life. At each stage in your life, you have left a footprint and made a mark. We have a choice in our life whether those marks left are impactful and positive or destructive and hurtful.
17 years ago, Navy SEAL Marc Lee made one of the most impactful decisions in his life. He made the choice three different times on Aug 2, 2006, to stand in the line of fire to save his teammates. He made the most selfless sacrifice anyone could ever make.
46 years ago, at the age of 23, recently divorced with a 3-year-old and a 18 month old, poor and pregnant, I made the choice not to have an abortion but keep my baby growing inside my womb. My 3rd child was Marc, I can’t even imagine how different this world would have been without Marc in it.
17 years ago, I received the most devastating news a parent could ever receive, Marc was gone. I would never hear his voice or laughter again, feel his arms hug me tightly, or his kiss on my cheek. I wouldn’t get to see him enjoy becoming a Daddy or hold his children. He wouldn’t be here to take care of me when I get old. His life was over. He definitely made his mark in this world.
I knew that our family, his friends, and teammates would never forget Marc and would always remember the mark he made on our lives in so many different ways! I had no clue 17 years later, how God would take how Marc lived and died to change millions of lives around the world.
I had no choice the news that was given to me that day BUT I did have a choice how I responded. I could have quit and given up and lived a life of sorrow. I could have focused on the loss and what was taken from me that day. Instead, I chose to focus on the blessings and what I had been given. I was blessed to be Marc’s Mom for 28 years, he was redeployed to Heaven and I know I will see him again when God calls me home.
I’m not sure if God will give me another 17 years on earth, but if He does I will live everyday to the fullest. I will trust Him and follow the direction He sends me, by the strength He gives me.
One thing I know for sure is that God doesn’t waste pain IF we trust Him and allow Him to work in and through us. I started America’s Mighty Warriors early after losing Marc and 17 years later we see such an AMAZING impact that Marc is STILL making. Lives saved, marriages and relationships restored, physical, mental, emotional and spiritual healing. Lives filled with hope and encouragement to persevere in the valleys and rejoice on the Mountain tops.
I do still hear Marc's voice as his teammates, family, and friends continue to share stories of him. My family has grown from 3 children to hundreds of adopted/inherited children, and I’m blessed with more hugs and grandkids than one could imagine. I see Marc living on through so many as they have been inspired by his amazing last letter home and they continue to #MakeYourMarc.
Marc starts his last letter home with “some men seek glory, other’s find it stumbling on them not expecting it to find them.” Marc wasn’t looking for glory and I’m sure he had no idea how big of a “marc” he would make on this world. Yet glory found Marc, in more ways than one, that’s for sure!
As we honor and remember Marc 17 years after he physically left this world, honor him by accepting his challenge to “pass on the kindness, the love, the precious gift of human life.”
#MakeYourMarc, what are you doing each day in your corner of the world to leave a good imprint. Not everyone is called to impact the world in the major way that Marc did, but make it your goal every day to “Live Your Life Worthy of Their Sacrifice” and #MakeYourMarc in some impactful way.
MommaLee
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