Another note from Raymon on Bullying
A friend asked me to make a film about ‘bullying’, as it has become a major problem, so I am writing about it first to test the response from you. Will it help people to not be victims?
Seems there is an attitude of people wanting to be offended or victimized by those who for some reason, don’t like or agree with them. This is a sure way to be disappointed.
My attitude is ‘Not everyone liked Jesus, it is unreasonable to expect everyone to like me.'
Maybe the best way to eliminate bullies is to eliminate victims. A victim cannot be a victim unless they have an abuser or bully. The bully cannot be a bully unless they have a victim ~~so they attract each other.
Life is a matter of choices. either person can choose to be, or not be. a victim or bully. The bully is not likely to make that choice so the victim can make it for them. The first step is to choose NOT be a victim.
You can develop this attitude.' I REFUSE to let anyone intimidate me.’
Your thoughts are more powerful than you realize, so if you think of yourself as a victim, you will attract a bully.
Your thoughts determine your decisions, which determines your actions, which determines what happens to you.
Probably most victims have ‘victim archetypes’. These are characteristics or forms of energy, which can be neutralized ~~with INTENT.
If you have attended my class, you would likely know how to remove the ‘bully archetypes’ from the bully.
I have read that Elenor Rosevelt said, ‘No one can make you feel inferior without your permission. SO~~Don’t give anyone permission to make you feel bad about yourself in any way.
Anytime you let someone embarrass you ~~you have given them power over you. You have the power to refuse to be embarrassed.
Here is a quote from my late friend Chief Two Trees. "People have given their money to the banker, health to the doctor, soul to the church, and I added their kids to the school system. In so doing, they have lost their power to control their lives"
Now if you follow these suggestions, you probably won’t fit in with the crowd~~You will be unique and you will be EMPOWERED.
If you want to change your life, think of the kind of person you want to be, SPEAK as if you are that person, ACT as if you are that person~~and you become that person.
And for those of you who are not concerned about being politically correct, remember ~~~~bullies, thieves, rapists and murderers prefer unarmed victims. This is why I wear a gun, it sends the message~~~ I am not a victim.