Carolina Riveros-Ruenes - Staff Spotlight
You have quite a long history at Two Rivers! How did you land here?
We moved to the area in March [2004]. I didn't realize that DC had universal Pre-K, which was not a thing in Miami. I had a pre-K child and we saw a little flier at Eastern Market. I remember thinking, “Oh, I'm gonna find out about this school.” And long story short, Camila got second on that waiting list.
I would drop her off at school in Ms. Carmen and Ms. Kai’s class. We used to have to fill out a parent questionnaire about how can you volunteer at the school, and it asked some questions about your past. So Jessica [founding executive director] found out that I was a teacher. She would come to me at drop off and be like, “Hey, we're hiring.” I was like, no, I am done with teaching. I taught for three years, almost four years in Miami - taught high school. And I was really burnt out. I don't know if I can do this again. And I told [Jessica] no, at least three times. And she's like, “Yeah, but just bring me your resume. And I was like, “No. Okay. Fine. And I was like, ‘Here's my resume, but, really I'm not interested.’”
[Jessica said], “Well, come in for an interview.” [So I came in] and it was just like such a lovely community. [I] felt home here. And so I was like, all right, well I'm gonna give it a try. And I taught Spanish, I want to say September or October [of the very first year of the school.] We went from preschool through second grade only. I had never taught that age group, so it was a big shift for me. It was fun though.
You were teaching Spanish?
Yes, Spanish. So I brought in my guitar . We used to sing a lot of songs. It was a lot about playing and singing songs, and I would bring my guitar and try to engage them… I feel like there was so much trust placed in me in that position. I felt so much responsibility to do a good job.
You are a founding Two Rivers teacher. What makes Two Rivers, Two Rivers?
To me at the core is that we're all learners and we're all continuing to grow. This is the 19th year for me, and every year I grow and every year I stretch, and keep evolving.
And I think that goes for our kids. I know we've had a rough couple years, but ideally that applies to everyone in our network. We're all learners and we're all working really hard to grow and push and figure out. Where is our influence? What is it that we can grow and make a difference and make things better?
You’ve been in the sixth grade seat for a while. What would you tell a fifth grader who asked you how to prepare for next year?
I think sixth grade is a time where social dynamics switch, change, and seem erratic. So being secure in what matters to you is a really good thing to think about before you come to sixth grade.…How do you show up in places where sometimes you're going to be with different people and you might want to fit in with people and how do you navigate the social dynamics of that? Our strongest and most successful students are very grounded in who they are and are secure in that, and are valued for that. I think that that is actually something that makes our middle school really distinct: our kids are much more likely to be secure in who they are.
Yes, sometimes we try on different hats to try to see where we fit in or what feels true to us. It's an age of exploration. Be secure in what at the core matters to you as a human because I think that that is going to be tested, frankly, in your middle school years and in your high school years.
Second, be curious about learning. Ask questions. Why is this interesting? Why is this not interesting? I think curiosity in all aspects of your middle school life is going to serve you really well.
And of course, read. Read a ton, please.
Parents, the thing that happens in middle school is that you see these big kids; they look like big people. In sixth grade they start little, but by the time they get to seventh grade, they look like big people, but they're still growing, developing children. I think that they do not need us to let go. [As a parent] I wanted them to be independent. But they need a lot of support. They need a lot of support socially, emotionally, and they need a lot of support academically. They just need a lot of support, period. So I think it's not time for parents to step back. Even though students may look like grownup people that can handle their stuff, they cannot. It can be scary, but we're here to be the team for your child. And I think that that's helpful.
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