Cindil's Reflections
Cindil Redick-Ponte, LT'24, Washington State Department of Health
Coming into our first Possibility Day was an anxiety inducing experience for me. It's been a minute since our Fall Retreat and my drive into Goodwill was plagued with racing thoughts. Are people going to judge me for not reading? Am I dressed appropriately? As I parked my car and opened the Four Pivots to speed read the chapters for the day, I had an interesting moment of clarity: You are not alone in your fear and insecurity. We all want to belong and bring value to our communities.
Neighborhoods and Communities Day started with important grounding in what it means to live in a neighborhood and belong in a community. After thinking through the healthy communities framework, we had a dynamic discussion with our facilitators, Shomari Jones, LT'10, and Jessica Paul Werner, LT'05, where we identified what structures and supports need to exist to have a thriving community. Our class also had a few things to add (no surprise!), specifically the presence of arts/culture, faith/spirit, public safety, and caregivers (children and elders).
My neurodivergence gave me a gift that morning. My early morning racing thoughts had actually helped me walk face first into Shawn Ginwright's first pivot: from lens to mirror. This almost-but-not-quite panic attack grounded me by forcing a hard look into my own mirror, which opened me up for a day of deep reflection, listening, and learning on community and belonging.
The discussions and engagement throughout the day highlighted how deep this need for connection is and how when it doesn't exist, our communities suffer. We suffer. This came to light in our Community Panel, where my group discussed and grappled with how isolating and exhausting being a change agent is. How do we support each other in this work? Where do we find the strength to keep going? How do we keep our authentic selves intact?
One of my biggest takeaways from this first Possibility Day was the confirmation that I indeed was not alone in my anxieties – the desire for belonging is universal, and now all 80 of us have the knowledge and power to begin (or continue) cultivating communities or neighborhoods where belonging thrives.
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