By now you will have received the invitation to pledge to support the ministries of the parish, which is one way of being an active participant in the story of God at work in and through us as we seek to share God's love with the community and the world. If you haven't received your invitation, please let Maria know so that we can be sure we have your mailing address.
As of this morning, we have ten pledges totaling $53,920! This is a great start to our goal of $128,000. Thanks to those who have pledged. And thanks in advance to those of you who read this message and make your pledge this week. You can do so here or by placing your pledge card in the offering plate on Sunday or by mailing it to the office.
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Happening at St. Stephen's This Week... | |
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WELCOME TO ADVENT!
This year, we continue our observation of an extended Advent of seven weeks, rather than four. This is a return to the Advent observance of the Church from its beginnings until just a few hundred years ago. Extending Advent in this way moves it from the "season of preparation" for Christmas to an observance of the full promise and realization of God's dream, helping us to engage more fully in Christ's mission of peace, justice, and the integrity of creation. We enter the new year mindful of God's work in creation through all time as we look ahead with hopeful anticipation to a more peaceful and just world and the fulfillment of God's promise to all people.
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SUNDAY WORSHIP
Join us at 10:00am on November 26th
for The Third Sunday of Advent.
ALL are welcome.
At Communion, you may receive the wine by sipping from the cup, reverently touching the base of the chalice, or you may choose Communion in one kind
only (the bread).
Coffee Hour in the Parish Hall after the service.
Our coffee hour hosts are:
Barbara and Roger Riedel
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Live-streamed to YouTube and Facebook. Bulletins are available on the St. Stephen's website. All links can be found at the bottom of the newsletter.
The Sunday service will also be broadcast on HTTV (Comcast TV 36 and
Verizon TV 33) on Tuesday at 6am and 3pm.
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COFFEE & CONVERSATION
Sunday, November 26th
8:30 - 9:30 AM
in the common room
Bring your beverage of choice and join
Rev. Paula and Deacon Karen for a conversation in the common room. Come with your questions and/or concerns. This is a special time for us to talk and share in our faith together.
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PLEASE CHECK WEEKLY BECAUSE EVENTS MAY BE ADDED OR CHANGED. | |
NOVEMBER
NOV 23 & 24
Offices Closed for Thanksgiving
NOV 26
3rd Sun of Advent
8am - Coffee & Conversation w/ Rev. Paula and Deacon Karen
10am - Sunday Worship
11:30am - Youth Group
1pm - AA Meeting
NOV 27
7:30pm - MA Meeting
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DECEMBER
DEC 3
4th Sun of Advent
8am - Coffee & Conversation w/ Rev. Paula and Deacon Karen
10am - Sunday Worship
11:30am - Adult Formation
1pm - AA Meeting
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DEC 4
7:30pm - MA Meeting
DEC 10
5th Sun of Advent
8am - Coffee & Conversation w/ Rev. Paula and Deacon Karen
10am - Intergenerational Sunday Worship
11:30am - Youth Group | Adult Formation
1pm - AA Meeting
DEC 11
7:30pm - MA Meeting
DEC 17
6th Sun of Advent
8am - Coffee & Conversation w/ Rev. Paula and Deacon Karen
10am - Sunday Worship
11:30am - Vestry Meeting
1pm - AA Meeting
DEC 18
7:30pm - MA Meeting
DEC 20
7:30pm - Finance Committee Meeting
DEC 21
7pm - Preschool Committee Meeting
7:30pm - Longest Night Service
DEC 24
Christmas Eve
8am - Coffee & Conversation w/ Rev. Paula and Deacon Karen
10am - Sunday Worship
11:30am - Youth Group
1pm - AA Meeting
5pm - Family Service
10pm - Candlelight Service
DEC 25
Christmas Day
10am - Christmas Day Service
7:30pm - MA Meeting
DEC 31
8am - Coffee & Conversation w/ Deacon Karen
10am - Sunday Worship - Lessons & Carols
1pm - AA Meeting
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Join Sister Monica in the Common Room at 11:30am as she leads our Adult Formation sessions this December.
Sr. Monica will facilitate conversation about being a part of God's story through two different topics:
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December 3
"Prepare the Way of the Lord: Why did the Community of St. John Baptist choose John the Baptist as our Patron Saint?"
How did the founders of CSJB, people dedicated to the care of poor and marginalized women in England, discerned their call in connection with John the Baptist?
December 10
"The Great O Antiphons of Advent"
How do the names for and images of Jesus shape how we understand the story of the incarnation?
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GIFT CARD COLLECTION DRIVE
for our Drumming Camp families
Due: December 10, 2023
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As part of our Christmas celebration, we are delighted to be supporting our Drumming Camp children!
We are kindly requesting donations of VISA or TARGET gift cards
(in denominations of $10, $20 or $25) this year for approximately 20 children.
Please forward your gift card donations to the St. Stephen's Church office
(119 Main Street, Millburn, NJ 07041) by Sunday, December 10th.
Please email Maryalice at maryalice_chech@yahoo.com if you have questions.
Many thanks! Your generosity is greatly appreciated and will help
bring joy to these children during the Christmas season.
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DONATIONS FOR CHRISTMAS FLOWERS
Due: December 20, 2023
Help make St. Stephen's especially festive this Christmas!
Your donations will help offset the cost of Christmas flowers for our church.
Donations can made via Tithely fund: "Special Gifts - Flowers, or delivered to the Parish Office at
119 Main Street, Millburn, NJ 07041 by Wednesday, December 20th.
If you have any questions, please email Maria or call the office.
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HARMONIUM CHORAL SOCIETY
Friday, Dec. 8th at 7:30PM
Sunday, Dec. 10th at 3PM Presbyterian Church in Morristown
Harmonium opens its 45th anniversary season with Ecstatic Expectancy, featuring music that expresses eager anticipation, including a comparison of Durante’s Magnificat of 1746 with two premieres of Magnificat by contemporary American women composers Dale Trumbore and Jessica French.
Tickets may be purchased in advance or at the door.
Presbyterian Church in Morristown, 57 E. Park Place, Morristown.
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COFFEE HOUR HOSTS NEEDED
FOR DECEMBER
St. Stephen's provides the coffee, tea, juice, water, sugar/sweeteners, cups, plates, utensils, and napkins.
The host(s) provide milk and food
(sweet -or- savory | bought -or- made).
Setup/cleanup is handled by our cleaning person.
The sign-up sheet is posted on the bulletin board in the narthex.
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COUNTING MINISTRY
The Counting Ministry is required
for compliance with best business practices and our audit process.
Please consider joining this team, which works in pairs immediately after the service. It’s actually one of the least time-consuming and most straightforward ways you can participate in the vital ministries of this parish.
Email Maria for the signup link.
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Advent in The Evelyn Underhill Region | |
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ADVENT BOOK DISCUSSION
While at Clergy Conference, the Evelyn Underhill clergy talked about how to continue our new-ish and much loved custom of observing Advent together. We decided to use a beautiful Advent devotional written by our friend and diocesan colleague, The Rev. Anne Kitch. The book is called Expectant, and is one that I have used in my own prayer for the past two years. Even the cover feels likes an invitation to prepare for Christmas again as if for the first time.
Rev. Anne will be joining us on Wednesday, December 13th from 7:00 - 8:30. The region will be reading it beginning December 3rd. The book is available on Amazon for about $10 for either paperback or Kindle. If you'd like a copy but cannot buy one yourself, please let Rev. Paula know.
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ADVENT EVENTS IN THE EVELYN UNDERHILL REGION | |
St. Paul’s, Chatham
Holiday Concert
Friday, December 15 at 7pm
Four Hands at the Piano performing the Nutcracker Suite featuring Nan Childress and John Pivarnik
Grace, Madison
Advent Bible Study: A Gospel without Christmas? The Good News of Mark
Wednesdays (Nov. 29–Dec. 27) at 10:30am (In-Person) /7:30pm (Zoom)
Mass with Saint Nicholas
Sunday, December 3 at 4pm
Music by Metropolitan Saxophone Quartet; and a Visit from Saint Nicholas
Advent Evensong & Reception Sunday, December 17 at 4pm
Music by Stanford, Ayleward, Rheinberger, and Gjeilo with
Advent carols
Blue Christmas
Wednesday, December 20 at 7pm
A Candlelight Taizé Service
St. George’s, Maplewood
Christmas Caroling
Sunday, December 3 at 4:30pm
Caroling followed by warm drinks and light refreshments
New Jersey Gay Men’s Chorus Sunday, December 10 at 4pm
Presenting “A Holiday Road of Carols” Concert
Advent Lessons and Carols
Sunday, December 17 at 5pm
Blue Christmas Service
Wednesday, December 20 at 7pm
A space for the Brokenhearted and Grieving
Advent IV Candlelight Service
Saturday, December 23 at 5pm
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St. Stephen’s, Millburn
Longest Night Service
Thursday, December 21 at 7:30pm
A contemplative service of comfort and hope with candlelight and music
Christ Church, Short Hills
Advent Morning Prayers
Monday through Thursday
(Dec. 4 - Dec 21) at 8:30am
A time of dwelling with God in community in-person and online via Zoom
Advent Wreath Making & Caroling
Sunday, December 3 at 5pm
Event includes one wreath per family, cost $25 per family
Winter Holiday Concert:
“The Road Home”
Friday, December 8 at 7:30pm
The Rutgers University–Newark Chorus and conductor Dr. Brian Harlow present their annual Winter Concert
Ordination to the Sacred Order of Priests: The Rev. Paul Keene Saturday, December 16 at 10am
Calvary, Summit
Service of Lessons & Carols
Sunday, December 3 at 5pm
Evening Prayer – Tuesdays, December 5, 12, & 19 at 5pm Featuring meditations on “Expectant,” the Underhill region advent book
Book Discussion – Wednesdays, Dec. 6, 13, & 20, 12pm A book discussion of “Expectant”
Celebration of New Ministry: The Rev. Christopher Cole Thursday, December 14 at 7pm
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EU EPIPHANY PARTY
Saturday, January 6 at 7pm
Hosted by St. George’s, Maplewood
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From Bishop Hughes & The Episcopal Church | |
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THE BISHOP'S VLOG
MESSAGE FROM BISHOP HUGHES
What to do when you don't know what to do - 11/15/23
Bishop Hughes describes being asked, "Bishop, what are you going to do about the war" and thinking, "As if they would listen to me, one lone person sitting in Newark, New Jersey" - which led to what one person can do in situations where there is no easy fix.
The Voice Online Link - 11/15/23
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DIOCESAN E-NEWSLETTERS
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Cross Roads Camp & Diocesan Youth Ministries | |
CROSS ROADS CAMP & RETREAT CENTER
NEW: Summer Camp Registration Opens on Dec 1st!
Looking for a meaningful summer adventure for your kids? A place where children and youth are encouraged to learn and share their own faith stories with other kids? Cross Roads is the answer!
Cross Road's program is all about fun and faith, giving children and youth the chance to bond, explore the great outdoors, and strengthen their connection with God. There's something for everyone, with a variety of programs tailored to different ages and interests from swimming to hiking, arts and crafts, and more. Plus, there are many opportunities for worship, prayer, and reflection, so campers can nurture their faith in a supportive and caring setting.
Cross Roads is located on 250 glorious acres atop the stunning mountain landscape of northwestern New Jersey.
To learn more about Cross Roads' Summer Camp offerings, click here.
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In this time of Crisis, there are many resources that can help if you or someone you know needs assistance. Please contact NJ Mental Health Cares for free helpline telephone counseling or assistance. Call 866-202-4357.
TTY: 1-877-294-4356.
E-mail: help@njmentalhealthcares.org
Other resources are:
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
1-800-273-8255
Crisis Text Line, 741741
NJ Hope Line (suicide prevention)
855-654-6735
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A/MA MEETINGS
Weekly AA meetings:
Sunday at 1:00pm
Contact: Rob H. (516) 860-9062
AA meetings are presented in Big Book format.
For more information about Alcohol Anonymous, click here.
Weekly MA meeting:
Monday at 7:30pm
Contact: Max T. (212) 203-2542
Contact: Deana L. (908) 499-8997
MA meetings are presented in a rotating format:
Step - Speaker - Story from Life with Hope - Topic
For more information about Marijuana Anonymous, click here.
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Please keep the following St. Stephen's family
members and friends in your prayers...
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Harold Williams
Ken Duge
Donna Bogardus
Ruth and Ron Gadbois
Lucy and Habib Faris
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Jody Caldwell
Shelley Toland
Theresa Scharff
Therese & Sherry
Sari Dalager
Lisa Ellis and Family
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Virginia Whatley
Gina del Russo
Dan Brown
Karen McCarthy
Felder Dorn
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If you would like to add someone to our prayer list, please email us at church@ststephensmillburn.org, or call (973) 376-0688 Ext. 32.
Anyone for whom we are praying will be on our prayer list for six weeks. If prayers are still needed beyond that time period, please let us know. Thank you.
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The Third Sunday of Advent
November 26, 2023
We are using the new lectionary,
Wilda Gafney's A Women's Lectionary for the Whole Church, Year A.
Our bulletins are available here.
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TITHE.LY
Giving with Tithe.ly is easy with options for recurring donations or one-time use for when you are away or not able to be in church (like all of us now due to COVID restrictions).
You can access Tithe.ly via their website or their app on your smart phone. Be sure to search for the correct account - "St. Stephen's Church Millburn." Once you have accessed the account page with our address, you will be instructed to follow the prompts.
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Only teachers and staff are allowed to be in the building during school hours. If you need to visit the parish office/building for any reason, please contact us for an appointment. Thank you. | | | |
PARISH OFFICE HOURS
Tuesday - Friday
9:00am to 5:00pm
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Sunday Worship
Meeting ID: 864 1664 1640
Passcode: SSM119
To call in, dial by your location:
+1 646 876 9923 US (New York)
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Adult Formation
Meeting ID: 878 3014 4448
Passcode: SSM119
To call in, dial by your location:
+1 646 876 9923 US (New York)
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St. Stephen's Episcopal Church
119 Main Street, Millburn, NJ 07041
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Church
Parish Administrator, Maria T. Card
973.376.0688, Ext. 32
church@ststephensmillburn.org
Rector, The Rev. Paula J. Toland
973.376.0688, Ext. 21
rector@ststephensmillburn.org
Fax: 973.376.4002
Website: ststephensmillburn.org
Preschool
Director: Nancy Siracusa
Phone: 973.376.3534, Ext. 20
Email: sspsmillburn@gmail.com
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