February 2024

Monthly Regional News & Events

This monthly newsletter is being sent to you from the New England Region's (NER) Federation of Jewish Men's Clubs (FJMC) because you are a NER Club Member, Local Rabbi or FJMC Regional President.

President's Message

When I look at my yard, I see flower buds starting to come up. It’s hard to believe that it is almost March and soon the winter cold will pass and we are heading into the many regional activities for the Spring. Just a few weeks ago, we celebrated the World Wide Wrap with clubs around the globe, and reports around New England were very positive about the experience people had. Of note, there were a number of congregations who had superb youth involvement, something of which we are particularly proud. A few clubs sent pictures from their 2024 wrap below.

Temple Aliyah, Needham

Temple Aliyah, Needham

Temple Israel Natick

Temple Israel, Natick

Temple Israel of Sharon

Temple Israel of Sharon

That same day, we had the first annual Super Big Game Squares fundraiser to add some NER fjmc excitement to the Super Bowl. In addition to three happy winners, the region raised nearly $400 to support programming. We hope to offer some similar events in the future. Special thanks to Stephen Shrago and Andy Fandel for their assistance with that.


We are now coming into the season of Brotherhood and Men’s Club Shabbatot and we are encouraging as many of you as possible to attend to get to know men at other clubs and to share in their celebration.


For March, the following will be taking place:

Saturday, March 3rd

Temple Israel Natick at 9:15 am

Friday, March 15thy

Temple Ner Tamid, Peabody at 8 pm

Saturday, March 23rd

Temple Emanuel, Newton at 9:30 am

A fun event open to the region will be a Passover Wine Tasting, which will take place at Temple Israel, Sharon on Saturday, March 16th at 8pm. The evening will feature jazz piano, food, and a plethora of wine selections to sample which can enhance your seders or make a nice gift to give others. Admission is $15 in advance or $20 at the door. Come have a great time and learn about new offerings while socializing with your friends. https://www.tisharon.org/event/2024-passover-wine-tasting


Planning is well underway for the Tour deShuls, June 23rd, which will start from Temple Israel, Sharon this year and we hope that many of you will get out and ride to support the Tikvah program at Camp Ramah, supporting campers with special needs. This has been a signature program of the region which combines physical activity, camaraderie, and tikkun olam. If you aren’t riding, please offer financial sponsorship to someone who is riding by making a contribution.

In case you missed it, check the current issue of FJMC’s Ha D’Var newsletter and see that your beloved New England Region was chosen for the spotlight article. During the interview about our achievements, it was amazing to realize just how much our region has contributed internationally. We hope you always take pride in what we stand for and it’s exciting to get this recognition.

 

Before you know it, TheRetreat will be here as well, the weekend of June 6-9th and the lineup will be excellent. The headliner this year will be Dr. Gideon Biger, a professor emeritus from Tel Aviv University. He will be discussing Israel’s boundaries, the history of the Gaza Strip, and hidden places in Jerusalem. A special speaker regarding antisemitism will be Eliza Kanner, CJP Senior Development Officer, Stand Up to Hate Ambassador, New England Patriots cheerleader and former Miss Connecticut. Lastly, Bill Magaliff, a highly sought after musician, director and teacher, will be coming to lead singing. All the usual wonderful activities at Camp Ramah will be available as well as the awesome food and services. Make this your year to come to TheRetreat.


Look forward to another training in the Spring as we look forward to focusing on how to move your club from good to great by participating in Torch Awards. More details of this will be forthcoming. Wishing each of you a happy Adar II and an enjoyable Purim.


In Brotherhood,

Paul

Paul Davidson

President, New England Region - FJMC

pdavidson@fjmc.org


The Rabbi’s Corner

Rabbi Jeremy Fineberg, NER fjmc Rabbinical Advisor

I think Purim might have too much going on. There are the 4 special mitzvot: 1-Mikra

Megillah/Reading the Megillah; 2- Seudat Mitzvah- eating a special festive meal; 3- Sending Mishloach Manot/ gift-packages to friends; 4- Mattanot l’Evyonim/giving charity to the poor. Of course, there’s also dressing up, blurring the line between Mordechai and Haman, and the general merriment and joy that’s associated with Purim. For a very short holiday, there’s almost too much to do!



In fact, you might say that Purim has almost a manic quality to it. Between all of the special

mitzvot and requirements, there’s so much to accomplish in so few hours. In fact, one of the reasons the special festive is usually held in the afternoon instead of the morning is because the assumption is that we’ll be so busy schlepping around delivering mishloach manot that we wouldn’t have time to have the meal any earlier.

 

The wide-ranging set of holiday activities and mitzvot seem designed to have us pulled in a

million different directions. There are two schools of thought on how to ‘succeed’ at Purim: either you have a clear schedule and minute-by-minute plan, to efficiently jump from one activity to the next; or you just kind of go with the flow, and move through the holiday with a frenzied sense of excitement. More often than not, it’s impossible not to do a little bit of both.

 

Perhaps that’s precisely the experience of the heroes of the Purim story. Mordechai and Esther

simultaneously create a thorough, thoughtful, and detailed plan. Yet they also have to roll with the punches and take whatever opportunity comes their way to save the Jewish people. Concrete thinking collides perfectly with a strategic nimbleness born of necessity. The result is success, safety, and joy for the Jewish People.

 

May we all learn and live out the lessons of Purim, to do so much in so little time, to craft great

plans and go with the flow, and with that perspective work to create everlasting joy and safety for us, and for the Jewish People worldwide.

New England Regional FJMC

The Retreat 2024

New England's first and oldest weekend

retreat for Jewish men in the US!


Where? Camp Ramah, Palmer, MA


When? June 6 - 9, 2024


What? a weekend of fun and learning with outstanding speakers, lay-led worship, sports, music, games, jokes, a campfire, camaraderie, and fabulous food


Want to learn more? Contact Larry Bressler at Lnbressler@comcast.net or Eric Pell at ericdpell@gmail.com



Join in this longstanding tradition and make it one of your own!


From more information and to register....

https://www.nerfjmc.org/region-programs/theretreat2024

Tour de Shuls 2024

Where? Temple Israel, Sharon MA


When? June 23th, 2024

Club Events

The Men's Club of Temple Ner Tamid

The Men's Club of Temple Ner Tamid, Peabody is running its next Texas Hold’Em Tournament Monday night March 4. They have been running these tournaments for over 10 years and they now collaborate with three other North Shore shuls. For a mere $36 donation, you will get a fantastic kosher dinner and a chance to win one of the top three prizes, plus have a great evening playing poker with guys and gals from around the North Shore. Reservations appreciated - contact Mark Rudin at 978-239-9246 or mrexge@yahoo.com.


Ner Tamid is also running a Music Bingo event on Saturday night March 2nd at $18 p/p - reservations are a must! Email TNT MensClub@gmail.com. For more information on these programs and other happenings at the shul, please visit the temple website https://templenertamid.org/


Temple Israel of Natick

Temple Israel of Natick will be holding a Texas Hold’Em Poker Night on Wednesday March 6th at 8pm in the Temple Israel of Natick Social Hall. Make new friends. See old friends. Have fun. RSVP to Steve Novick at novick@alum.mit.edu

Temple Israel of Sharon

Temple Israel of Sharon is hosting its annual online fundraising auction now through March 10th. Check it out to see some amazing items and purchase something special while making a donation to help the Brotherhood’s many charitable activities. https://www.biddingforgood.com/auction/auctionhome.action?auctionId=341742281

Friends of fjmc

Without the FJMC, valuable Jewish programming might never occur. FJMC needs your financial support in order to continue to create the important programs which keep your men’s Club vibrant. You can help preserve the significant impact the FJMC and its members have made on behalf of Jewish men and their families around the world by making a pledge. Our organization depends on you so please consider becoming a Friend of the FJMC today! 


https://fjmc.org/donate/friends-of-fjmc/

Regional Calendar

2023/2024

Event

June 6 - 9, 2024 (Thursday - Sunday)

TheRetreat 2024

Camp Ramah, Palmer, MA

June 23, 2024 (Sunday)

Tour de Shuls

Temple Israel, Sharon, MA

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