Fall Harvest
Fall Reflections...
Wisechoices Newsletter - Fall 2010
In This Issue
Message from Mari
Soaking Up The Sweetness
Creating Space
Special Message from Arjava
Letting go and Change
Upcoming Events
A Message from the Universe
A message through Mari
Mari

Simplify your mind

It is no doubt useful to simplify your life, to re-evaluate the way you live, what you do and with whom, and where you do that. But the best way to begin the process of cleansing is within your own mind.

Your mind and your life are one. Whatever happens in your life is born out of thought and emotion. To keep things simple and manageable begin by living in the present. Don't think of what may or may not be, don't consider what may go "wrong" or "right"- simply enjoy the ride. Forget the outcome of whatever it is you do and do it simply for the pleasure of doing it.

Arjava




How easily we judge and not understand. Aren't we all teachers and students in our life?

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Soaking up sweetness
Soaking Up The Sweetness
I was walking down a small road in northern Spain

when I saw a peasant lying in a garden.

"You are crushing the flowers," I said.

"No," he answered, "I am trying to get a little of their sweetness."

Paulo Coelho


Dancing group

Creating Space to Dance Together

Henri Nouwen Society


When we feel desperately lonely (vs. in joyful, peaceful solitude) we keep looking for a person or group who can take our loneliness away. Our lonely hearts cry out, "Please hold me, touch me, speak to me, pay attention to me (ultimately, please fix me and make me complete)." But very soon we discover that the person or group we expect to take our loneliness away cannot really give us what we ask for. Often that person or group feels burdened or oppressed by our relentless demands and runs away,

leaving us in despair and terror.


As long as we approach another person or group from our desperately lonely neediness, no authentic, mature human relationship can ever develop. Clinging to one another in loneliness and neediness is suffocating and eventually becomes totally destructive for all. For love to be possible we need the courage to create sacred space between us and to trust that this space allows us to dance together.


A Special message for you from Arjava

Arjava
Frank Arjava Petter

I have been asked again and again to come to the USA to teach, and I would be happy to schedule a tour in 2011. We will have three venues: one on the East coast, one on the West Coast and one in the Middle. My friend and fellow author Mari Hall will be the main contact for this tour and we are asking those of you in the US to let us know if you are interested. Mari is one of the most precious diamonds in the Reiki world and this will be a good chance to meet and share each others insights.

Mari's email address is:


Mari Hall
6103 Alden Street, Houston, TX 77084
832-282-4454


Women in fall
Being in a Nurturing Place

There will likely be times in your life when your soul evolves more quickly than your circumstances. Your subconscious mind may be ready to move forward long before you recognize that you are destined to embrace a new way of life. Your soul intuitively understands that changing habitats can be a vital part of the growth process and that there may be one part of you that is eager to move to another home, another state, or another plane of existence. But the ties that bind you to your current mode of being can make moving into this next stage of your life more challenging than it has to be. If you find it difficult to move on, consider that just as people in your life may come and go, your role in others' lives may also be temporary. And many of the conditions that at first seemed favorable served you for a short time. When you are ready to match your situation to your soul, you will find that you feel a new sense of harmony and increasingly connected to the ebb and flow of the universe.

Moving on can be defined in numerous ways. Your forward momentum may take you from your current locale to a place you instinctively know will be more nurturing, comfortable, and spiritually enriching. Once you arrive, your misgivings will vanish, and you will know that you have found a sanctuary. Similarly, subtle changes in your values, goals, or emotional needs can motivate you to distance yourself from one group of people in order to associate yourself with individuals that are better able to support you. For example, this could mean moving away from your birth family in order to find your energetic or spiritual family. The route you need to travel may not always be clear; you may feel inspired to change yet be unsure as to why or how. Clarity may come in the form of a question if you are willing to seriously ask yourself where your soul is trying to take you.

In a way, moving from one point to another or moving into a different relationship when you feel strongly driven to do so is a way of bringing your spiritual and earthly energies together. It is a two-step process that involves not only letting go but also reconnecting. You will know you have found your destination, physical, emotional or otherwise, when you feel in your heart that you have been reborn into a life that is just the right shape, size, and composition.

Upcoming Events

One Energy Therapy - Salt Lake City, Utah, January 15-16, 2011
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Reiki One and Two- Houston, February 27-28, 2011
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The Universe
A Message from the Universe
What would you think about today, if you knew those very thoughts would command leagues in the unseen?

And what would you say today, if you knew each word you chose would send great waves into motion?

And what would you do today, if you knew I'd glean from the slightest of your moves, whether or not you believed in life's magic, so that I could prove you right?

No, no, you don't have to answer! We'll just wait and see...

Holding our breath,
The Universe and friends


Soul Food

"We've all got both light and dark inside us. What matters is the part

we choose to act on. That's who we really are."

Sirius Black to Harry Potter, in Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix

"I'm starting to think that there is only one cause worth fighting for,

and that is love."

Anne Spivey


"To genuinely love another you must be bold and willing to unlock

from the inside the deep mystery that is you."

Jim Spivey

"When we choose not to focus on what's missing from our lives but are grateful

for the abundance that's present...we experience heaven on earth."


Sarah Ban Breathnach

"Love ignites the heart, energizes the emotions, resurrects the soul

and nourishes the spirit. Love is the light that pierces the darkness,

that fills the emptiness.

Love infuses. Love permeates. Love enfolds.

Love finds itself in itself."

Patrick Thomson