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ellie krug

writer, lawyer, human

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The Ripple 

  Vol 8 No.11 December 2023

Inspired by the words and deeds of Robert F. Kennedy   

Closing Out 2023


Dear Friends:


On Sunday the 10th, I gave my last talk of 2023 to forty or so folks at Christ the King Lutheran Church in Bloomington, MN, not far from the famous Mall of America. The talk, “Gleaning Authenticity from a Moment of Truth,” was partly my story, and partly about how all humans need to live authentically, regardless of what it is that makes them feel whole.


The experience was bittersweet. While the congregants were extremely welcoming (thank you for that!), at the back of my mind was knowing that I’m not set to do another talk until the very last week of January. As I’ve lamented before, this is a direct result of the anti-wokeism campaign that’s taken hold in America, something which my numbers reflect: traffic to my website is down by more than 50 percent and my income for 2023 is fully a third less than last year. (But please don’t worry about me, I am fine and certainly able to pay the bills…)


That’s been this year. I am far more concerned about 2024 and beyond. If we can’t have conversations about getting past how we “other” people, I fear that marginalization and outright discrimination will predominate in ways that only George Orwell could imagine. In that scenario, almost everyone will be at risk for one reason or another.


Okay Ellie, enough of the doom and gloom!


But things of late are not all bad. With the downtime that began Thanksgiving week, I’ve been able to jump start a rewrite of my second book, Being Ellen. I’m thrilled to report that with 60,000 mostly decent words, I’m more than halfway done with the book. I expect this draft to be finished by February 1, and after that it will be on to beta readers and professional editors. My fingers are crossed. (I know, I’ve missed many other self-imposed deadlines on this darn thing!)


Because all I want to do right now is to write, write, write for the book, you’re getting a heavily abbreviated Ripple. Thank you for understanding!


Finally, as we close out the year, I wish you the very best for the holidays, including the hope for sane and happy holiday dinner table conversations! I look forward to talking to you again in 2024!


Remember, I care about you!


ellie

Sixty Second Roundups

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Compassion

We start this month’s Compassion with an incredible story about two friends who arranged for a car to be donated to a man who walked 5.5 miles to work every day in order to work 12 hr. shifts/7 days a week—he had promised a dying friend to look out for her son after she passed. Then there’s this story about police officers rescuing an elderly man from a burning house. See also this video of a man rescuing a hawk that had become entwined in fishing line—notice how calm the hawk is. As if the Universe had said, “He is there to help…”

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Mission

In this California school district, parents weren’t willing to put up with an anti-transgender school board member, so they successfully mounted a campaign to get the question of recalling her on the next election’s ballot. See here. I should also note that this week, the Pope announced that priests could bless same sex couples—it’s a step in the right direction. See too this story about an Ohio news anchor who came out as gay live on air. Finally, earlier this month, I was interviewed as a “Zealous Hellion” at Mixed Blood Theater, where I talked about human vulnerability and compassion. Mikki Morrissette, the editor of Minnesota Women’s Press, wrote this piece about the interview; if you scroll down, you’ll also see a link to a brief talk I gave last year—at the time, I didn’t think it was that good, but now in retrospect, it’s not bad! 

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Pain

Here is a story about a Florida career librarian who had finally had enough of that state’s backward movement on free speech and just about everything else. And, in keeping with my editorial above, see this story about how Wisconsin Republicans held hostage $800 million for pay raises for the state university system’s 34K employees and funding for a new engineering building on the Madison campus. The ransom: the state university regents had to agree to dismantle the university system’s DEI programs. Sadly, after initially balking, the regents caved. Here’s a similar story about Oklahoma—DEI is now gone from that state’s entire public colleges and universities. It will only get worse, folks. (But don't worry, I won't give up...)

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Relief

For this month’s Relief, we begin with this ten-year-old being surprised by his returning service member big brother. See also this wonderful story about a “portal” between Poland and Lithuania where people can wave to each other—how ingenious. We need more of those! Then there’s this piece about a golden retriever (of course!) raising very adorable African Painted Dogs. (Check out their ears!) Finally, here’s a story about seals being released onto a California beach and another story about wolves released on a Colorado mountain. 

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Support

My best friend and loyal Ripple reader Dennis Tharp sent along this story about an LGBTQ+ community center named “Queer Futures” opening in Steamboat Springs, CO. The money for the center came in memory of a son who died of an opioid overdose. Also, I’m a fan of David Brooks, and here’s his recent NYT piece on essential skills for humans, including how to talk to each other. 

Lastly, several of you have recently donated to Human Ripple Works, Inc., the nonprofit which makes it possible for me to do more work for organizations that lack budgets for training (like talking to Gender and Sexuality Alliances at various schools across the country). Thank you for that! If you’d like to support this work, please click here on the HRW website. Thanks!

Finally....

The Ripple is a work in progress, so please, I welcome your suggestions and comments! Please share this newsletter with others, too!


Please consider reading my book, Getting to Ellen: A Memoir about Love, Honesty and Gender Change; if possible, order it through your local bookstore. And, if your book club reads my book, I'm happy to come for the discussion via Zoom!


Thank you for helping to make the world a better place! I'm at your side, cheering you on, I promise! Please have compassion for yourself and for others.


ellie

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