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Top of Mind
Remember the good old school days? When teachers asked who wanted to play volleyball, football, or baseball, we'd gather 'round, take a shot at tryouts, and if you had the skills, you got to play! It was the perfect way to get active, learn character traits, and - most importantly - have a good time.
But those times seem to be long gone. Nowadays, if you want to play a team sport, it feels like you have to make that decision early and join leagues for little ones. As a pediatrician, I've noticed concerning trends in how kids and parents approach sports these days.
Let's talk about the parents. They spend too much time glued to the TV, watching newly drafted players promise fancy houses to parents. On the golf course, I see tiny tots carrying bags bigger than themselves, parents hoping for the next Tiger Woods. I recently attended a pee wee league football game, and the parents' behavior surprised me. Loud, angry, and demanding to "put my kid in" - it's a real spectacle.
Now, let's talk about the children themselves. They fall into two main categories. First, those with true talent and early involvement in organized sports. By middle or high school, they already know their talents or have solid experience in their chosen sport. Then there are others - talented but lacking experience - and sadly, they often get weeded out. Of course, there's always room for the "natural athlete" who shines no matter when they come into the system.
It's time to shake up this system of kids in sports. The lessons learned through organized sports are invaluable. Of course, we need to be careful not to start too early or jeopardize safety. What we really need are more opportunities for any kid who wants to participate. And have a lot more fun! Parents, it's time to accept that not every child is destined to be a superstar.
Stay Healthy,
Dr. Mike
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