July 2024

The Why, When, and How of Asking Questions

Asking questions is one of the last skills we introduce in Volunteer Training. It’s only after we’re secure in awareness and reflection that we can begin incorporating questions into our facilitating approach.

 

It’s important to keep those first two skills of awareness and reflection close at hand because when we enter the realm of questions, we become more vulnerable to falling back into habitual and socialized ways of interacting. Questions are powerful and can inspire participants to share more of their stories, connect with one another, and reflect on their own experience in new ways. On the other hand, they can also be received as intrusive, evaluative, or distracting, depending on timing and context. 


Our race, culture, gender identity, sexual orientation, religious/not-religious tradition, economic status, education, where we were raised, and our personal values and beliefs are some of the many aspects which... continue reading 

Writing Through Grief

If you missed last month’s Volunteer In-Service, Reflection Through Writing, we wanted to share a few of the writing prompts we used, in case you would like to explore free writing on your own. For each prompt, set a timer for four minutes and just keep writing! 

  • My grief story started... 
  • Identifying as ___ shapes my grief... 
  • These days, grief is... 
  • Every time I hear a new story in group... 
  • Because of my story, I can... 

The Ripple Effect of Loss in Portland’s Black Community

While it's impossible to speak for an entire community, especially when it comes to grief, Sharice Burnett, LCSW, knows a lot about the ripple effect of loss in the Black and African American community in Portland. Born and raised in the community, Sharice is a clinical mental health therapist and consultant dedicated to naming and dismantling the larger systemic barriers that stand in the way of Black children and families having access to culturally relevant support, particularly mental health and grief support. 


If you'd like to learn more about historic and current day grief narratives in the Black/African American community in Portland, be sure to listen to our Grief Out Loud interview with Sharice!

We'd Love Your Help

There are two opportunities to help provide nourishment for families at our SE Portland location.  

  1. If you’re available every other Monday afternoon we are looking for one or two volunteers to help with the meal we serve for Pathways, our group for families living with an advanced serious illness. Only available sporadically? We’d still love to hear from you! Please email rebecca@dougy.org to learn more. 
  2. If your schedule is more flexible and you have access to a car, we are looking for support in our partnership with Urban Gleaners. We need one or two people to pick up grocery items from East Burnside and 6th Avenue and deliver it to our SE location. Interested? Email cheryl@dougy.org.   
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