~~ May 2024 Newsletter ~~

When Pomp Meets

to Circumstance

It's cap and gown time, and even though my graduation was a big deal, my mother’s graduation from Fayetteville State Teachers College, 1955 was a landmark. As the first college graduate in our family, folks came from everywhere to see her walk across the stage, get that paper and hear that song.  Pomp & Circumstance Song by Sir Edward Elgar 


In some ways, the pomp of a college education may have fizzled. With rising tuition costs and no promise of a job in your field, getting a degree can be a crap shoot. Add to that the evolution of AI and there's a good chance your degree might be obsolete before the ink dries. 

 

Let's take a look at the circumstances that define the Class of 2024: global warming, a worldwide pandemic, virtual school, the global Black Lives Matter movement, mass shootings in schools and a domestic terrorist attack on the US Capitol. Not to mention, for eight years of their lives, the First Family was black (!!!), which impacts the way they see the world and racial dynamics. 

 

Young Millennials and GenZ experience life very differently than their boomer elders. For them, opinions become group thought in seconds. They can Tik Tok their way into a revolution, creating an ecosystem of public protest in the blink of an eye. Their causes are not centralized; they are worldwide, and their talking points transcend black and white. For them, the lines between race, ethnicity, class, economics, and political parties are blurred, leaving only right and wrong to consider. Just and unjust. Safe and unsafe. Is it fair? Are we all free?  

 

I kinda like that.

 

At the table, we leave the pomp behind and acknowledge our circumstances - the things that connect us. We hold a vision of a just and equitable society, and we hold each other accountable for what we want to see in the world. Straight. No chaser. No pomp. 


Join us on Tuesday, May 21st for Part 3 of our Race and Mental Health Series featuring VCU professor, Dr Shawn Utsey and his most recent documentary. Hear how teachers and students are working together to change the world. 


Coming together . . . for good!


Bringing Love to the Fight!


Danita

Education For Action

BOOK CIRCLE AND POTLUCK DINNER

(3rd Thursdays)

In-Person


Thursday, May 16th 

6:00 - 8:00 pm ET

Potluck Dinner & Conversation


The Education For Action Book Circle is reading a series of essays found in the Richmond Racial Equity Essays Project.


This month we are reading the second section of the Richmond Racial Equity Essays Anthology, pages 19-27, Building and Sustaining Affordable Housing. Click the Anthology link above to read this month's essay. Please take a look at the Discussion Guide as well. 


E-mail Cheryl Goode to receive the location and further instructions.


Best Wishes,

Cheryl Goode

EFA Book Circle Convener

3RD TUESDAY

DINNER & DISCUSSION


Part 3 in a series:

Race and Mental Health


~ featuring ~


Shawn Utsey, Ph.D.

Discussing his 2022 documentary:

The Central Lunatic Asylum for the Colored Insane


Tuesday, May 21ST

6:00 - 8:30 pm ET


Ginter Park Presbyterian Church

Fellowship Hall

3601 Seminary Avenue, Richmond, VA 23227

Dr. Shawn Utsey is a documentarian and psychology professor. He says Virginia’s Central State Hospital, which was the first psychiatric hospital for Black people in the United States, began with an emphasis on controlling newly-freed enslaved people. Dr. Utsey’s 2022 documentary, The Central Lunatic Asylum for the Colored Insane, is about what is now called Central State Hospital. It premiered at the 2022 Afrikana Film Festival.


You are invited to view the documentary in its entirety on your own prior to our 3rd Tuesday Gathering. Access it for free by clicking on the title of the film in the previous paragraph. During our time together in person, we will view a short clip or clips, but not the whole film.


In his presentation, Dr Utsey will discuss the historical link between mental health in African Americans and their continued criminalization as well as what needs to be done to change this paradigm.


This month our dinner will be catered (caterer to be determined). As always there will be a vegan option. Donations of $20 per person are appreciated to help cover costs. Bring a friend or two!


Everyone is welcome and no one will be turned away, so please come regardless of whether you can make a donation. We so appreciate your voice and spirit in the conversation!


***AND......Please bring your gently used books on CT-VA/CTTT related topics that you are ready to part with, as we prepare for our June 18th Summer Reading Book Sale FUND raiser and FRIEND raiser!


Look for an invitation to register for this event in your inbox soon.

Reading For Change

BOOK CIRCLE

(4th Thursday of the month)

 Hybrid



Thursday, May 23rd

6:30 - 8:00 pm ET


In Horse, Geraldine Brooks tells three stories, effectively, carefully, tenderly braiding all three into one compelling narrative. What’s more, two of three are true–and there’s as much sad truth as fiction in the third.

  • The story of a bay thoroughbred named Lexington (real), his enslaved Black groom, Jarret (fictional), and a young horse painter, Thomas Scott (real), set in the turbulent South in the 1850s-1870s;
  • Of Theo, a Nigerian-American art history grad student who finds a painting of a famous horse, and Jess, an Australian and a Smithsonian curator who lives for bones, both fictional characters, set in Washington DC in 2019; and
  • Of Martha Jackson (real), an art gallery owner who becomes obsessed with a mysterious nineteenth-century painting of a horse, set in New York in 1954. (from a Susan Albert Review)


We look forward to seeing you and engaging in meaningful dialogue. The in-person potluck will be held at the home of one of our members. Please register to receive the location or link.


Doug Steele

RFC Book Circle Convener

Register

MOVIE CIRCLE

(4th Thursday of the month)

 Zoom



Monday, May 27th

6:30 - 8:00 pm ET

Deeply moving and laugh-out-loud funny, Mission: JOY is a documentary with unprecedented access to the unlikely friendship of two international icons who transcend/transcended religion: His Holiness the Dalai Lama & Archbishop Desmond Tutu. In their final joint mission, these self-described mischievous brothers give a master class in how to create joy in a world that was never easy for them. They offer neuroscience-backed wisdom to help each of us live with more joy, despite circumstances.


Inspired by New York Times bestseller The Book of Joy: Lasting Happiness in a Changing World, the film showcases the exchange between these two Nobel Peace Prize winners that led to that book. Consisting largely of never before seen footage shot over 5 days at the Dalai Lama’s residence in Dharamsala, the film invites viewers to join these luminaries behind the scenes as they recount stories from their lives, each having lived through periods of incredible difficulty and strife.


With genuine affection, mutual respect and a healthy dose of teasing, these unlikely friends impart lessons gleaned from lived experience, ancient traditions, and the latest cutting-edge science regarding how to live with joy in the face of all of life’s challenges from the extraordinary to the mundane.


Watch the movie in the comfort of your home. Then gather with us for fellowship and conversation on Zoom on the 4th Monday of the month at 6:30 pm ET. You'll receive the Zoom info once you've registered.


Robin Allman

Alistar Harris

Movie Circle C0-Conveners

Register

Virginia Museum of History and Culture

A BETTER LIFE FOR

THEIR CHILDREN

Julius Rosenwald and Booker T. Washington are the founders of the Rosenwald school building program.

In 1912 the two men launched an ambitious program to partner with Black communities to build public schools for African American children. From 1912 to 1937, the program built 4,978 schools across 15 southern and border states.


This exhibit will showcase photos and artifacts and opens May 25, 2024 and runs to April 20, 2025. Contact Hayat if you are interested in going with a group to see this new exhibit.


Click here for more information.

BE THE CHANGE


There is much work to be done to create the Virginia we want to see.

So roll up your sleeves and let's get busy!


HIGHLIGHTED EVENTS


(RVA): Local Event

(NAT): CTTT - National Event


Thursday, May 16th

6:00 - 8:30 pm ET

Education for Action

Book Circle & Potluck Dinner

In-Person

Please e-mail Cheryl Goode to be added to mailing list or to receive location.

(RVA)


Sunday, May 19th

4:00 - 5:00 pm ET

CTTT Guided Meditation

via ZOOM

Contact Hayat  

if you have questions.

(NAT)


Tuesday, May 21st

6:00 - 8:30 PM ET

3rd Tuesday

Dinner & Gathering

In-Person

CATERED Dinner

(RVA)


Thursday, May 23rd

6:30 - 8:00 pm ET

Reading For Change

Book Circle

Hybrid

Contact Doug to be added to mailing list or to receive location or link to participate.

(RVA)


Monday, May 27th

6:30 - 8:00 pm ET

Movie Circle

via ZOOM

Contact Robin to be added to mailing list.

(RVA)


Wed., May 29th

7:00 - 8:00 pm ET

Introduction to

CT-VA Facilitation

via ZOOM

Contact Bonnie to be added to Zoom call.

(RVA)




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FACILITATORS MAKE A

DIFFERENCE

Want to become more active in the work of racial justice? How about becoming a CT-VA FACILITATOR! 


CT-VA offers a structured training program that prepares you to fulfill this role comfortably and competently. It includes two 4-hour weekend training sessions, plus Facilitator Circle Trainings the second Thursday of each program month. Year 1 prepares you to create brave, safe space for the table discussions at our monthly gatherings. If desired, you can advance to Level 2 training and become a CT-VA certified facilitator and support our events in the community. 


To learn more, join our 60-minute ZOOM introduction to the rewarding role of facilitator: 

Wednesday, May 29th, 7-8:00 pm. We will review program content and requirements, plus share how to get a head start on fulfilling the requirements. If interested, please email Dr. Bonnie Dowdy, the Coordinator of Facilitation and Training: dowdy8716@verizon.net. We will send you the ZOOM link. 

SUMMER READING BOOK SALE



FUND & FRIEND RAISER!!


June 18, 2024

(3rd Tuesday)

A Special Feature of our 3rd Tuesday Dinner Discussion twice a year, in February (Black History Month) and June (Summer Reading)

   

Donate books for our Summer Reading Book Sale Fundraiser & Friend raiser. We want gently used books DVDs (not VHS, cassettes, CD's): fiction, nonfiction, biographies, children’s books, poetry on race-related topics or by African American authors to sell. Collect books from friends, colleagues and organizations.


Drop them off at one of the these places:


a) Our Ginter Park Presbyterian Church CT-VA office (3601 Seminary Ave. RVA 23227)  Call our Office Administrator Pam first to be sure she is there to let you in. Office phone #:

804-442-3635.


b) Bonnie Dowdy's home (2902 Garrett St 23221 - right by the Carillon/Byrd Park). Put books in a plastic bag & leave on front porch if she is not there. 


c) Bring books to May 21st Gathering - can come as early as 5:30 pm to drop off.

Donate While You Shop

Are you a frequent Kroger shopper? Do you have a Kroger Card or a Kroger Digital Account? If so, please consider linking your account to Coming Together Virginia for Kroger Community Rewards.


Every time you shop in-person or online and use your Kroger Card or associated phone number Kroger will donate a percentage to Coming Together Virginia based on your purchase. There is NO charge to you and linking your account is super easy. Learn more about the Community Rewards Program and how to link your Kroger account by clicking below.

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To Open Hearts

and Minds

through shared learning and bold

truth-telling


To Connect People

across the racial divide


To Teach Dialogue Processes

for healing conversations on difficult racial experiences


To Promote Action

to dismantle the

legacy of enslavement


To Call Forth Just and Equitable Communities

in Virginia and beyond

Thank you for your continued support of

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Artist Talk

Black History Musuem & Cultural Center of VA

Saturday, May 11

2:00 - 4:00pm ET

Stop by the BHM to hear P. “Muzi” Branch – an illustrator, designer, painter, Richmond native, and double VCU graduate – discuss the significance of culture in black creativity, the evolution of African American visual art and its impact on society.


Register

COMING TO THE TABLE EVENTS

SAVE THE DATE

SAVE the DATES National Gathering

June 12-15, 2025

Minneapolis, MN

 

The CTTT Planning Team is excited to announce the

2025 National Gathering.

We trust that by sharing this news more than a year in advance, that individual members and Local Affiliate Groups will mark your calendars and plan to attend. 

Details coming late 2024!


Linked Descendants Writing Pod Gathering

Sunday, May 5th

1-2:30 PT / 4-5:30 ET

CTTT host this meeting that will include Henry Wiencek, speaking about his book The Hairstons; An American Family in Black and White, as well as linked descendants Will Hairston, Darrel Hairston, and Ed Hairston.

 

 CLICK HERE to register in for this meeting. .

Guided Meditation:

Sunday, May 19th

4:00 - 5:00 pm ET

Join our CTTT friends every month for a guided meditation session. CTTT offers monthly calls utilizing meditation as a tool for healing wounds related to race.


These calls are designed for everyone; those with experience and those with no meditation practice or experience.


You can CLICK HERE to register for the Zoom gathering.

Jonathan Davis, Marketing and Communications Manager

Coming Together Virginia
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