~~ July 2024 Newsletter ~~

How Hot Is It?

 It's hotter than a billy goat with a blow torch!  

  Hotter than a jalapeño’s armpit!

 

Lately, it seems no matter how you start a conversation, it always ends with "How hot is it?” Or “Is it the heat or the humidity?”  Who cares (!!!) when walking outside feels like a truth or dare challenge? Friends, climate change is real. We are experiencing unnatural shifts in weather patterns. The planet is getting warmer but are we finding solutions to reverse this cycle? That’s the burning question and that’s not all.


Hotter than a pot of grandpa’s neck bones!

Hotter than Satan’s bath water!


If you can’t stand the heat, get out of the kitchen because the economy is making everyone’s temperature rise. The cost of goods and services is making everyone hot under the collar. Yes, inflation impacts our purchasing power but don’t forget those folks who picked that $3 tomato; they are feeling the heat, too.

 

Hotter than a firecracker lit at both ends! 

Hotter than a baker’s belt buckle!

                                                     

Is it hotter than the 4th of July? You betcha!! It's an election year like no other. With the long awaited presidential debate now in our rear view mirror, conversations between political parties are sizzling! 45 and 47 are running at a dead heat and our democracy may wind up in the barbeque pit of history.

 

Hotter than a hen laying boiled eggs!!


BUT WAIT! Here’s a hot tip for you. Did you know that your body temperature actually lowers when you feel hopeful and encouraged? Studies have shown that when you think positive thoughts and surround yourself with positive people, your body temperature can decrease by five degrees. Cool beans!


Our 3rd Tuesday team is on hiatus until September however, we encourage you to chill with us this summer. Travel, read or watch a movie with CT-VA. Check your email for exciting opportunities to grow and have fun with our family. Coming Together Virginia is the hottest game in town . . . and that’s pretty cool.


The News and Observer / How hot is it? 108 other ways to say it’s scorching.


Bringing Love to the Fight!


Danita

3RD TUESDAY

DINNER & DISCUSSION

Returns in September


Join us on 9/17/24 for our Family Reunion Gathering!

HAVE A GREAT SUMMER!

Education for Action CIRCLE AND POTLUCK DINNER

(3rd Thursdays)

In-Person

Thursday, July 18th 

6:00 - 8:00 pm ET

Potluck Dinner & Conversation

The Education For Action Circle is reading a series of essays found in the Richmond Racial Equity Essays Project.


This month we are reading the fourth section of the Richmond Racial Equity Essays Anthology, pages 42-54, Advancing Economic Empowerment. Click the Anthology link above to read this month's essays. Please take a look at the accompanying section in the Discussion Guide as well. 


E-mail Cheryl Goode to receive the location and further instructions.


Best Wishes,

Cheryl Goode

EFA Circle Convener

MOVIE CIRCLE

(4th Thursday of the month)

 Zoom

Monday, July 22nd

6:30 - 8:00 pm ET

Everybody’s Work: Healing what hurts us all examines the hidden disease plaguing healthcare in the United States: systemic racism. Through the lens of fearless nurses, this documentary not only exposes the biases that result in worse healthcare outcomes for people of color, but it captures the painful impact they have — both on patients and nurses.


A stark reality emerges through their stories: the experiences within healthcare, nursing school, and at the bedside drastically differ for people of color compared to their white counterparts. But because healthcare remains a white-dominated field, those painful experiences largely go unaddressed. This film challenges the notion that if racism isn’t personally experienced, it doesn’t exist. It urges us to confront the reality that it impacts us all.


As the largest and most trusted body of healthcare professionals, nurses are uniquely positioned to lead the charge against systemic racism. Rooted in the foundational values of nursing, they hold the power to dismantle barriers to health equity. But confronting and combating racial bias requires a conscious choice by every individual to change and address systems and individual behavior. Remaining passive or turning a blind eye only perpetuates a cycle that harms us all.


Discover how nurses who dare to challenge the status quo by fostering a community-driven approach, embracing equity-minded practices, and advocating for inclusive education, are paving the way toward a healthier future for all. This film serves as a rallying cry, reminding us that healing from racism in healthcare is a collective responsibility that transcends individual professions and identities. It’s everybody’s work.


Robin Allman

Alistar Harris

Movie Circle C0-Conveners

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Reading For Change

BOOK CIRCLE

(4th Thursday of the month)

 Hybrid

Thursday, July 25th

6:30 - 8:00 pm ET


Kiese Laymon's Heavy: An American Memoir recounts growing up in a ferociously intellectual household — the only child of a single mother — as a black boy who struggles with weight. It is about the jagged, uneven road to becoming a writer and a man; it is a chronicle of daily confrontations with the twin assaults of American racism and America's weight-obsessed culture. Heavy... is a compelling record of American violence and family violence, and the wide, rutted embrace of family love.


We look forward to seeing you and engaging in meaningful dialogue. The in-person potluck will be held at the home of one of our members. Please register to receive the location or link.


Doug Steele

RFC Book Circle Convener

Register

CT-VA Hosts Poor People's

Campaign Delegation

CT-VA hosted a dinner on Saturday, July 29th for the Georgia Delegation of the Poor People's Campaign. There were 93 who arrived from Washington, DC at Ginter Park Presbyterian Church in Richmond for their dinner break on their way back to Georgia. Facilitators from Coming Together Virginia, Richmond Pledge to End Racism, Virginia Center for Inclusive Communities and Richmond Peace Education Center welcomed and guided conversations at tables with 7 travelers.



The march was attended by thousands of poor and low-wage workers and their supporters from religious, labor and social justice organizations. The purpose was to center the needs of over 135 million poor and low-wage workers across the country, and to launch outreach to 15 million poor and low-wage infrequent voters ahead of the 2024 U.S. election in November.


Everyone was well-fed, had a comfortable resting spot, meaningful reflection on their day, some uplifting singing, and snacks to take on the long drive back to Georgia.

BE THE CHANGE


There is much work to be done to create the Virginia we want to see.

So roll up your sleeves and let's get busy!


HIGHLIGHTED EVENTS


(RVA): Local Event

(NAT): CTTT - National Event


Thursday, July 18th

6:00 - 8:30 pm ET

Education for Action

Circle & Potluck Dinner

In-Person

Please e-mail Cheryl Goode to be added to mailing list or to receive location.

(RVA)


Sunday, July 20th

4:00 - 5:00 pm ET

CTTT Guided Meditation

via ZOOM

Contact Hayat  

if you have questions.

(NAT)


Monday, July 22nd

6:30 - 8:00 pm ET

Movie Circle

via ZOOM

Contact Robin to be added to mailing list.

(RVA)


Thursday, July 25th

6:30 - 8:00 pm ET

Reading For Change

Book Circle

Hybrid

Contact Doug to be added to mailing list or to receive location or link to participate.

(RVA)



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FACILITATORS MAKE A

DIFFERENCE

Want to become more active in the work of racial justice? How about becoming a CT-VA FACILITATOR! 


CT-VA offers a structured training program that prepares you to fulfill this role comfortably and competently. It includes two 4-hour weekend training sessions and opportunities for shorter monthly meetings as well.

If interested, please email Dr. Bonnie Dowdy, the Coordinator of Facilitation and Training: dowdy8716@verizon.net.

Donate While You Shop

Every time you shop in-person or online and use your Kroger Card or associated phone number a percentage will go to Coming Together Virginia. Learn more about the Community Rewards Program and how to link your Kroger account by clicking below.

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Our Mission


To Open Hearts

and Minds

through shared learning and bold

truth-telling


To Connect People

across the racial divide


To Teach Dialogue Processes

for healing conversations on difficult racial experiences


To Promote Action

to dismantle the

legacy of enslavement


To Call Forth Just and Equitable Communities

in Virginia and beyond

Thank you for your continued support of

Coming Together Virginia.

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Maggie Walker 160th Birthday

The National Park Service will honor Maggie Lena Walker’s 160th birthday with a two-week celebration featuring events across Richmond highlighting the Black banking pioneer’s legacy.

Walker, a civil rights leader and community organizer, will be commemorated through art exhibits, tours, lectures and volunteer opportunities from July 5-20.

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SAVE THE DATE! 

 

Thursday, SEPTEMBER 12 2024  

 

Reclaiming Richmond History:  

Black and White Worker Solidarity  

in the Origins of the Old City Hall Building 

Join us on the evening of Thursday, September 12, 2024 when Coming Together Virginia and the Virginia Museum of History & Culture explore an overlooked chapter of Richmond history that highlights the solidarity between black and white workers at the peak of the Reconstruction Era following the Civil War. 

 

A lecture by historian Peter Rachleff, PhD (Professor of History Emeritus, Macalester College, St. Paul, Minnesota) will trace the origins of Richmond’s Old City Hall, when a coalition of union activists held a majority on City Council and put forward a vision for a new city hall that resonates in our day. The lecture will be followed by a panel discussion and facilitated small group conversation. 

 

Look for an invitation that allows CT-VA members to reserve their tickets early, as space will be limited.  

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World Changer Resources

for Nurturing Ourselves & Each Other:


What Is Resilience?


I have a book called, It’s Hard to Make a Difference When You Can’t Find Your Keys, by Marilyn Paul. The subject of resilience brought this title to mind. How can we shift the world (or even ourselves) toward new ways of thinking, being and doing that may fulfill the Coming Together Virginia vision of “a racially healed world of thriving, equitable and just communities” if we aren’t caring for ourselves and each other in a way that nurtures our resilience?


And by “resilience” I don’t mean the standard dictionary definition, which springs (pun intended) from our unconsciously colonized society, and in this definition from Oxford Languages (online), which tells us that it’s either “the capacity to withstand or to recover quickly from difficulties; toughness” OR “the ability…to spring back into shape; elasticity.” Of course with some of this the definers refer to objects and not people, but they don’t seem to differentiate. And these reductionistic definitions seem somewhat opposed to each other. I’m thinking of “toughness” vs. “elasticity”.


In the context of people and racial healing and trauma of any level, I really appreciate Staci K. Haines’ more holistic definition of resilience in her book, The Politics of Trauma: “Resilience is the ability to somatically, holistically renew ourselves during and after oppressive, threatening or traumatic experiences. We are able to shift ourselves, physiologically and psychologically, from traumatic, hyperalert states to calmed, cohesive states. It is the ability to regain a sense of hope and imagine a positive future. Resilience allows for safety, belonging and dignity to be reestablished…” This definition feels more human, more conscious of one’s emotional feelings and body-centered sensations and the complexity of the human experience.


How do you define resilience in general or for yourself in your own life? What are the signposts of your resilience? We’d love to hear from you on this and you can share your thoughts by replying to this email.


~ Hayat


Hayat Bain will periodically share thoughts and resources you may find helpful related to World Changer Resources for Nurturing Ourselves & Each Other. In the next installment we will explore what you may want in your medicine bag or toolkit for cultivating resilience Hayat has a background in health care and healing of many kinds and is a STAR (Strategies for Trauma Awareness & Resilience) practitioner.

COMING TO THE TABLE EVENTS

SAVE the DATE National Gathering

June 12-15, 2025

Minneapolis, MN

 

The CTTT Planning Team is excited to announce the

2025 National Gathering.

We trust that by sharing this news more than a year in advance, that individual members and Local Affiliate Groups will mark your calendars and plan to attend. 

Details coming late 2024!


Guided Meditation:

Sunday, July 20th

4:00 - 5:00 pm ET

Zoom

Join our Coming To The Table friends every month for a guided meditation session. CTTT offers monthly Zooms utilizing meditation as a tool for healing wounds related to race.  These calls are hosted by the Mindfulness Working Group and are designed for those with and without meditation experience.


You can CLICK HERE to register for the Zoom gathering.

Jonathan Davis, Marketing and Communications Manager

Coming Together Virginia
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