By Palma Strand

Civity is all about relationships – creating and strengthening bridging relationships that connect people who are different. These relationships form the relational infrastructure that underlies the civic infrastructure. Together, relational and civic infrastructure make it possible for communities to function.
 
Civity relationships are relationships of respect and empathy. People “see” each other and share stories to get a sense of walking in one another’s shoes.

Most of the differences that keep people apart in communities are differences that involve one group having power vis-à-vis another group – with the dividing line being race or ethnicity, immigration status, economic status, occupational role, religion, gender, or sexual orientation.