The Chalice
Newsletter of the Oberlin Unitarian Universalist Fellowship
May 2021

If you have announcements for The Chalice, send them to office@ouuf.org at least one week before the first of the month. 
Thank You!

Upcoming Services
May 2021
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May 2
TED Talk--"The Art Of Asking: How I learned to stop worrying and let people help."
Ann Cook-Frantz, Jeff Witmer, Brian Warren, and Caitlin Chapman.

May 5, 4:00-5:00
UU Kendal Gathering: A Democracy Deep Dive

Rev. Mary Grigolia explores the roots and off-shoots of today's far-right extremism in the United States, sharing insights based on columns by Heather Cox Richardson, professor of American History at Boston College. Followed by discussion. All are welcome. Use Zoom login: https://zoom.us/my/keepingfaithwithlife

May 9
Mother’s Day
Marianna Carney, Lara Lillibridge, and Caitlin Chapman.

May 16
The Interdependent Web Revisited.
Mary Lee Orr & Don Leake

Humankind’s linguistic capability has empowered us over the other animals. Unless we believe that “MIGHT MAKES RIGHT,” we have a sacred obligation to use that power ethically. Our stewardship of the other animals, as the most powerful animal
on earth, is our concern-especially our closest kindred mammals!

May 23
Finding Common Ground 3
Rev. Mary Grigolia, Zellda Zelley

Sharing stories of community groups and projects successfully finding common ground around the country. How might we participate? Do you have a common ground story to share?

May 30
Love Wins 2: Is War Evil?
Rev. Mary Grigolia, Zellda Zelley

As we observe Memorial Day and honor those who fought for and defend our democracy, we reflect on war as an expression of evil in the human family and on the role of organized religion to call us home to our essential interdependence: God as love.



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Zoom Addresses
Sunday Service Zoom Login
Meeting ID: 926 2419 0519
Join via smartphone by dialing: 929-436-2866, then entering the
Meeting ID followed by the pound sign: 92624190519#, then entering the password: 134017#
OUUF Events Calendar
*events are online and times are PM unless otherwise specified* 
For more information, and to see when rooms are reserved for private use, 
   
1 Sat
2 Sun
10:15-10:45am Children's Church via Zoom
11:00am Sunday Service via Zoom
3 Mon
7:00-9:00 OUUF Men's Group via Zoom
4 Tue
7:00-8:00 Poetry Group via Zoom
5 Wed
4:00-5:00 UU Kendal Gathering via Zoom
6 Thu
10:00-11:30am Morning Meditation via Zoom
2:00-3:30 Dream Group via Zoom
7:00-8:00 Evening Meditation via Zoom
7 Fri
8 Sat
9 Sun
10:15-10:45am Children's Church via Zoom
11:00am Sunday Service via Zoom
10 Mon
7:00-9:00 OUUF Men's Group
11 Tue
12 Wed
6:30-8:00 OUUF and OUUC Worship Teams Meeting via Zoom
13 Thu
10:00-11:30am Morning Meditation via Zoom
7:00-8:00 Evening Meditation via Zoom
14 Fri
7:00-9:00 Game Night via Zoom
15 Sat
16 Sun
10:15-10:45am Children's Church via Zoom
11:00am Sunday Service via Zoom
17 Mon
7:00-9:00 OUUF Men's Group via Zoom
18 Tue
19 Wed
6:30-8:00 OUUF and OUUC Worship Teams Meeting via Zoom
20 Thu
10:00-11:30am Morning Meditation via Zoom
2:00-3:30 WISE Women via Zoom
3:45-5:00 OUUF and OUUC Adult Program Team Meeting via Zoom
7:00-8:00 Evening Meditation via Zoom
21 Fri
7:00-9:00 Current Events Discussion Group via Zoom
22 Sat
23 Sun
10:15-10:45am Children's Church via Zoom
11:00am Sunday Service via Zoom
24 Mon
7:00-9:00 OUUF Men's Group via Zoom
25 Tue
1:00 Listening to Writers of Color Book Group via Zoom
4:00-5:00 Care Givers Support Group via Zoom
26 Wed
7:00-9:00 What Would Jesus Do? Covenant Group via Zoom
27 Thu
10:00-11:30am Morning Meditation via Zoom
7:00-8:00 Evening Meditation via Zoom
28 Fri
29 Sat
30 Sun
10:15-10:45am Children's Church via Zoom
11:00am Sunday Service via Zoom
31 Mon
7:00-9:00 OUUF Men's Group via Zoom

  
  
Mary's Musings

“Letting in the Light”

Ten years ago next month, Cindy and I found home when we walked into the condo we now own. I knew it as soon as I turned my head: an expansive lake,
staring back at me. Calm underbelly, light breeze rippling the surface of the water. My shoulders dropped away from my ears. I took a deep breath in. I relaxed.

I rely on the lake to remind me to find the calm under the surface of my days. I understand my self in the smaller birds keeping away raptors. I watch my moods in the passing clouds.

Yet as pandemic continues, I’ve been stunned by the consequence of simply stepping outside. Inhaling fresh air. Hearing the sounds of nature, even amidst human-made sounds of traffic and construction. My body relaxes and perks up.

Qigong teacher Robert Peng breaks everything into three stages: Get ready, Do It, Receive the Benefits. I’m good at Doing It. Less skilled at Getting Ready. And a novice at Receiving the Benefits, letting it sink in.

Walks outside are how my body/heart/mind/spirit best receives the benefits. I need the whole chorus of life singing together in order to find my place, to let life’s light in. When I let the light in, allowing myself to be recharged, I spontaneously feel myself opening, responding as in loving kindness meditation, ‘living from the joy of my own true nature.’

May we all let in the light of spring, letting it recharge us.
May we all find ourselves living from the joy of our own true nature.

May 2021 Cause of the Month

As part of our covenant with one another, OUUF members have made a commitment to live our values in the world through Causes of the Month, which we support through our offering. 

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The cause of the month for May 2021 is the UUA Disaster Relief Fund

The UUA Disaster Relief Fund provides financial assistance to UU congregations that have experienced devastation following hurricanes, wild fires, floods, and other natural disasters. In addition to facilitating their own disaster recovery, congregations receiving disaster relief funds have discretion to provide financial assistance to their members, as well as to support local partner organizations serving the community at large.



JULY 2020 - JUNE 2021
CAUSES OF THE MONTH SCHEDULE

JULY Oberlin Weekday Community Meals
AUGUST League of Women Voters- Oberlin Area
Education Fund
SEPTEMBER El Centro
OCTOBER Genesis House
NOVEMBER OCS Helping Hands
DECEMBER UU Service Committee- Guest At Your Table
JANUARY Let's Get Real
FEBRUARY The Haven Center of Neighborhood Alliance
MARCH Lorain Co. Free Clinic
APRIL Lorain Co. Rape Crisis Center
MAY UUA Disaster Relief Fund
JUNE Family Planning Service of Lorain Co.


Adult Programs
 
 Tuesdays:
Poetry Group, Tuesday, May 4, 7-8 p.m. on Zoom
Bring poems that speak to your life, that spark your imagination in these winter days; come to listen and share. (Poems do not have to reference Groundhogs). All are welcome.

Zoom login for Poetry is:  
Meeting ID: 999 2808 1815
Passcode: 559893
Join by smartphone by dialing: 301-715-8592, then entering the Meeting ID plus pound: 99928081815#, then entering the passcode plus pound: 559893 


Care-Givers Support Group, Tuesday, May 25, 4-5 p.m. on Zoom. 
Do you care for a spouse, partner, parent, friend or child? Join us. Led by Rev. Mary. All are welcome. (usually 4th Tuesdays, meeting monthly)

Zoom login for Care-Givers is:
Meeting ID: 910 8383 9716
Passcode: 510093
Join by smartphone by dialing: 929-436-2866, then entering the Meeting ID plus pound: 91083839716#, (then perhaps: 0#,) then entering the passcode plus pound: 510093# 

Book Group: Listening to Writers of Color, Tuesday, May 25, 1:00 p.m. on Zoom
The Listening to Writers of Color Book Group is reading Caste by Isobel Wilkerson for our May meeting

Zoom Link:

Meeting ID: 843 3513 8667
Passcode: 302751


Wednesdays
What Would Jesus Do? Covenant Group, Wednesday, May 26, 7:00-9:00 p.m. on Zoom
You are warmly invited to explore with us all the ways in which the seven principles of Unitarian Universalism lie at the heart of Jesus' consciousness.

Zoom Login:
Meeting ID: 993 562 54184
Passcode: 580 483


Thursdays
Thursday Morning Meditation, (weekly on Thursdays),10-11:30 a.m. on Zoom.
Welcoming awareness as the wise body, beautiful heart, responsive mind, and boundless spirit. Drawing wisdom from many traditions. All are welcome. Led by Rev. Mary. 

Zoom login for Meditation is:
Meeting ID: 975 1560 4579
Passcode: 679876
Join by smartphone by dialing: 929-436-2866, then entering the Meeting ID plus pound: 97515604579#, (then perhaps: 0#,) then entering the passcode plus pound: 679876# 

Evening Meditation, weekly on Thursdays, 7:00-8:00 p.m. on Zoom
"Meditation can give you what you cannot get from any other source, it introduces you to yourself. It allows you to see that the Spirit is within you. You
are no longer alone." - Swami Rama

The meditation group that started as a Sangha in Michael Reitz's (Casper) apartment a year ago has continued to meet, using his excellent format as a guide. We would be delighted if others would like to join us.

Call or email Ann Cook-Frantz, convener, if you would like to join us, and she will send you the zoom link: anntcf78@gmail.com. or 5087-572-0563

Dream Group - Thursday, May 6, 2-3 p.m. on Zoom.
Exploring spiritual growth through metaphors, stories, roles and relationships, wisdom and humor of dreams. Bring a dream (or dream cameo) to share. All are welcome.

Zoom login for Dream Group is:
Meeting ID: 931 2202 9279
Passcode: 238245
Join by smartphone by dialing: 929-205-6099, then entering the Meeting ID plus pound: 93122029279#, then entering the passcode plus pound: 238245#


WISE Women - Thursday, May 20, 2-3:30 p.m. on Zoom. 
Explore our monthly theme, Imagination, How are you experiencing Imagination this month? All are welcome.

Zoom login for WISE Women is:
Meeting ID: 912 8009 9980
Passcode: 527342
Join by smartphone by dialing: 929-205-6099, then entering the Meeting ID plus pound: 91280099980#, then entering the passcode plus pound: 527342#


Fridays

 Current Events Discussion Group, May 21, 7:00-9:00 p.m. on Zoom
We gather to enhance our awareness of current events and provide emotional support to one another in responding to them with vigor.

Zoom Login:
Meeting ID: 937 7402 1775
Passcode: 294 216

Note: Friday After-Lunch UU Check-In does not meet this month.

MORE ABOUT OUR 
COMMITTEE & TEAM EVENTS 
 

 
OUUC Sunday Services & & OUUF Worship teams meet on Wednesday,
May 12, 6:30-8 p.m. on Zoom
to discuss moving to dual-platform services (in person
and on Zoom). All are welcome. (Same login as Sunday morning.)

OUUC Sunday Services & & OUUF Worship teams meet together on
Wednesday, May 19, 6:30-8 p.m. on Zoom
for our monthly review, assessment and preview of Sunday services. All are welcome.
Zoom login for Sunday Services Committee is:
https://zoom.us/j/92624190519?
pwd=SWdHL3Z6QkxGY1lTWXdqdVluYUVXQT09
Meeting ID: 926 2419 0519
Passcode: 134017
Join by smartphone by dialing: 301-715-8592, then entering the Meeting ID
plus pound: 92624190519#, (then, perhaps, 0#,), then when prompted
entering the passcode plus pound: 134017#

Care Team OUUF
Our mission is to make visible the "spirit of caring fellowship", facilitating care for members and friends in their times of need. 
 
Adult Program Team
Our mission is to provide transformational adult programs for spiritual exploration and ethical living for members and friends of OUUF and the larger community. 
 
Adult Program Team meets on Thursday, May 20 at 3:45 p.m. via Zoom. All are welcome! 
Join Zoom Meeting by computer:

Meeting ID: 970 5577 1526
Passcode: 975903
Join by smartphone by dialing: 301-715-8592, then when prompted entering the Meeting ID plus pound: 97055771526#, then when prompted entering the passcode plus pound: 975903#

Communications Committee
The Communications Committee is looking for new members! If you are interested in joining, please send an email stating your interest to communications@ouuf.org.

UUA News

UUA Youth Opportunities
 
From involvement in drafting the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, to leading the faith caucus to establish the International Criminal Court, to overcoming UN apathy about sexual orientation & gender identity issues, the Unitarian Universalist United Nations Office (UU-UNO) has a long history of providing strong leadership in all aspects of human rights at a policy level.

With a deep passion for and commitment to international human rights, youth and adults from all over North America gather annually for our three day seminar to dig deeply into issues with global impact.

The intergenerational seminar is an opportunity to collaborate with others while learning how to be a global activist. Through workshops, peer and expert-led panel discussions, community building activities, and worship services, participants undergo a transformative process of learning, reflection, and growth as we explore some of the most challenging issues facing humanity today. Registration for the Virtual 2021 Intergenerational Spring Seminar will open in December 2020.



Exploring Class and Classism

UU Class Conversations provides Unitarian Universalist congregations and organizations with the tools and language to explore class and classism through a distinctly UU lens.
Building upon our faith community's ongoing diversity work - from race to gender to sexual orientation to gender identity - the project aims to produce more welcoming congregations while strengthening our shared commitment to social justice.


Multicultural Leadership & Inclusion

Effective justice ministry depends on partnership, since racial discrimination touches everyone. UU partners in racial justice work, beyond the Unitarian Universalist Association, include UU State Action Networks, the Unitarian Universalist Service Committee, the UU College of Social JusticeDiverse & Revolutionary UU Multicultural Ministries (DRUUMM), and Allies for Racial Equity. UUs also form interfaith partnerships, such as with the Interfaith Organizing InitiativeCongregation-Based Community Organizations, the Forward Together movement, the NAACP, and the Living Legacy Project. Learn more here.


Reproductive Justice

Decisions about children, families and sexuality are some of life's most profound. We advocate not only for the freedom of those choices in each person's life journey, but also for the ability of all families and communities to realize a sense of wholeness with regard to their sexual and reproductive lives. We create safe and healthy environments for children in our faith communities and campaign publicly for just and compassionate laws for family planning, reproductive health, and gender equality. Read about what we're doing here.


 

Oberlin Unitarian Universalist Fellowship

355 E. Lorain St.
Oberlin, Ohio 44074
Phone: 440-775-0355
      www.ouuf.org     

Services every Sunday on Zoom
at 11:00am

All Are Welcome!
 
STAFF  
 
Minister:
Mary Grigolia
minister@ouuf.org
 
Office Manager:
Eva Wynn
office@ouuf.org
 
Director of Religious Exploration:
Lara Lillibridge
dre@ouuf.org
 
Music Director:
Katie Cross
crossk_connect@yahoo.com 
 
 
Board of Trustees '20-'21
 
President, Stephanie Gibson; 
Vice-President, Jeff Witmer;
Secretary, Sarah King; 
Treasurer, Cindy Frantz;
Members-at-Large, Elizabeth Aldrich