I’ve reflected on those questions, as I’m sure many others have. I don’t have any answers, and doubt if any realistic possibilities exist. … And what about those Missing in Action, who’ve never returned?
Many families have been able to lay their loved one to rest in a cemetery where they could each visit any time they desired. I can’t imagine the anguish, though, a family has with a missing in action (MIA) never to be found! I’m sure there would always be the wonder if the MIA would someday walk through the door, but how long would that hope linger—years, a life-time?
Consider for example, WW II and the 3rd Army under General George Patton as it fought for 281 straight days through France, Germany, Austria and into Czechoslovakia. The 3rd army lost 27,104 killed and 28,237 “missing in action.” ... That was 28,237 families who never had the opportunity to lay their loved one to rest. ... Is there ever any closure one year or even eighty years later?
So, as you physically or mentally walk slowly among your loved ones this Memorial Day weekend 2023, also fly the flag, wear a poppy, and go out of your way to acknowledge someone and their family, who gave much or all for you and me to have the freedoms we take for granted. … Better yet, make this a regular step in your life journey. And, if anyone ventures close to the Fort San Marcos Cemetery, would you add a flower or two to honor those 19 soldiers of 1818?
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Lastly, a personal, family note: I grew up in western Oklahoma, on a small farm and then in a small country town. I’ll never forget decorating gravesites with my Mom and family. She was a force not to be stopped at those times! Seemed to be related to everyone in the cemetery as Mom would insist putting at least one flower on what seemed like each grave. She’d fondly say from her memory, “I know this person (or family), and none of their family will be here today.” Seems to me, it’s such compassion how Memorial Day came to be a national event and include everyone.
Thanks for stopping by my Campfire, and sharing these memories.
I’ll keep the campfire burning,
Clifton
PS: Pass this Memorial Day Tribute and Honor to our Veterans along to someone else. Your remembering may be the highlight of their year! And, others can receive their own copy and future ones too by sending Clifton Savoy a note either by email or through the Contact message on his website. www.CFSavoy@Nettally.com and www.CliftonSavoy.com
Photos (top down): 1) Ft. San Marcos Cemetery plaque by J. Savoy.
2) Spanish soldiers sketch by C. Butler of Leeds, United Kingdom.
3) Veteran Memorial Field by K. Smith of Tulsa. 4) Courtesy National Archives, WW II D-Day U.S. Military Cemetery at Normandy, France. 5) General Lawrence F. Snowden, courtesy use by Turtle Cove Press (https://turtlecovepress.com/contact-us/).
Campfire Stories coming around the bend: Father's Day Recognition, July 4th: ‘A World Champion Bronc Rider & an Acadamey Winning Movie Star.’ Plus, there’ll be a yummy recipe. … Remember: Campfire Stories are always free and you can drop out any time. Join at:
www.CliftonSavoy.com or send Clifton an email at: www.CFSavoy@Nettally.com
God bless! ... cs
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