February 2023

Building a Foundation Together

Dear Friends-


As you know, we at Civity envision a culture where everyone belongs, and where everyone is “seen.” This culture of civity grows when people offer each other respect and empathy across difference.


As Palma discusses in her article, civity is the foundation for a healthy democracy. And, as we are seeing in our climate change and housing work, this civity foundation is also necessary to address the tough problems of our day.


In fact, we – all of us – ARE the foundation. The foundation – how we are with each other – can create integrity – or it can crack.


So how do we build a solid foundation?


We know that it’s leaders like you who are doing the necessary work – on the ground, in your communities, working on the important issues of the day.


Our mission at Civity is doing what we can to support leaders like you – established and emerging – so that together we can create the change we need. That’s why we do what we do: offering tools for you to be intentionally and effectively relational in your work, and to invite others to do the same.


The more of us who contribute to the foundation, the stronger it becomes. 



The change you make can be personal to you – as Civity team member Vanesa Acevedo writes in her article. And it can affect others – like the Sheridan, WY, Rotary Club members that Amy Albrecht, Executive Director of the Center for a Vital Community, writes about in hers.


We know that civity work makes a difference, as Robb Willer, Stanford University sociologist and lead researcher of the recent Strengthening Democracy study, affirms in his interview with Civity comms director Gina Baleria.


So thank you, as always, for the work you do. It’s a privilege for us to walk by your side – to build this foundation together.


Warmly, Malka

Democracy's Civity Foundation

By Palma Joy Strand


I live in an old house – more than 100 years old.


The other day I was down in my basement with a plumber looking at replacing some cast iron pipes that have reached the end of their time.


It’s never fun to be faced with significant home repairs, but at the same time I was trying to look on the bright side. The foundation of the house is solid, and the basement stays dry even through drenching summer thunderstorms.


Democracies have foundations too.

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Acts of Civity Amidst Tragedy Lead to Enduring Connections

Civity is more than connecting and belonging; it is a cultural change.


Recently, I experienced civity even in the midst of tragedy. In December 2022, my city was on fire. At 5 pm, I could hear fire trucks and planes dropping water from the sky above my community of Viña del Mar near Santiago, Chile.


My heart clenched to see how the fire advanced mercilessly toward the populated areas on my hill.


But as the devastating blaze unfolded, a profound act of civity took place – reverberating beyond the tragedy, helping our community cope, and strengthening our social fabric.

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PODCAST: Stanford's Robb Willer on Building Social Trust to Strengthen Democracy

In this episode of This Is Civity!, we talk with Stanford Professor Robb Willer, lead researcher involved with the Strengthening Democracy Challenge (SDC).


Civity's was one of 25 interventions chosen out of more than 250 for this mega-study on approaches that may help strengthen our democracy.



The Civity Storytelling intervention performed well #1 in increasing social trust and #2 at decreasing social distance and opposition to bipartisanship.


We explore the importance of Civity's results to increasing inclusion and belonging across socially salient differences.

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Civity - the Gift that Keeps Giving


By Amy Albrecht


Here at the Center for a Vital Community, we’ve long advocated for civility by modeling constructive dialogue in Community Conversations. Unfortunately, what we’ve found when recruiting participants is not just hesitation but fear about how their views will be received. Who can blame them? Very few examples portray qualities like listening for understanding, putting differences on the table or finding commonalities.Then we found another arrow for our civility quiver. It’s a process called Civity.

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Civity & the News:

Relationships 2.0: The Power of Tiny Interactions


In a Hidden Brain Podcast, host Shankar Vedantam explores the power of tiny interactions to strengthen our social fabric and improve the quality of our lives. These tiny interactions involve our day-to-day engagements with people we encounter as we move about our daily lives – including people at the store or coffee shop; the person we regularly see on our walk or when running errands; or even the person who delivers our mail or does our dry cleaning.


Research shows that tiny interactions, also known as weak ties, can improve our well-being, make us happier, and make us feel less lonely.

How You Can Support Civity's Work

Thank you for supporting and practicing civity! To support Civity’s work with a tax-exempt donation, CLICK HERE to donate online or get instructions for sending a check.


Your donation helps fund our communications and enables us to give free workshops to small nonprofits.


Our work is more important than ever, and we can’t do it without you. Help us reach more people and provide more support to leaders across the country seeking to build civity.


Let’s grow our Civity community by reaching out to “others” and bridging across divides. Together, we can create a culture where we ALL belong.

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